So last week, as I mentioned, DH was kissing SD20's ass the whole week. This is after the fact that she disrespected me, and lied saying that DH was going over BM's house, he went to meet with her to discuss it, she walked out on him, she left her food, but called DH to bring it to her, and sure enough he took it to her. Last week, while paying the our cell phone bill, I decided to look at the call history. He has been calling her like on average 5-6 times a day. I am like really? Then Friday, I get a text message from him saying that he is hanging out with her. I was fuming. I texted him back saying. Good for you!! Enjoy!! Then the more I thought of it, I am like wow, he is basically validating EVERYTHING she did. He comes home and doesn't say a WORD to me, not until the next day afternoon time. We get into an argument over it, he told me that's his daughter and to never mention her name again..(I fell out over that one) :jawdrop: It's okay that you lied to my wife who could have left me because she was thinking I am going over BM house, and your kissing her ass?? OMG!!! I can't shake the fact that I am so LIVID that he is doing this. I think he needs to give her more time to think about her actions. A week? Really and your kissing her ass on a daily. Who the hell are you married too?? Then yesterday after we had plans, he was sleep and his phone goes off, and I see that it was her calling (I cringed), after he didn't answer she text asking what time are they meeting. So I go in there and ask him, what his plans are for the day. He was like what are you talking about, we aleady have plans. I told him about the text, and he was like oh, I have to go pick her up at a half point (she was at her BM's house for the weekend- the SD lives about 25 min from us, and 45 min from her BM) and take her home. She doesn't have her car. WTF???? Really?? So we started an argument over that, he told me that I just don't want him to see his daughter. I told him, no, your just validating the fact that she can lie to break up our marriage and disrespect me and everything is going to be okay. She won't stop, she is going to keep trying over and over again. I literally hate this girl. (hate is a strong word, I know), but she is trying to ruin my life with my husband and he isn't making it better. I fume, when I know that he is spending time with her or calling her on a daily (yes, I know its his daughter) Let her feel some pain, the pain that I felt when she did all this.

I can't shake the feeling, am I crazy???