Another no show for SD. Now, SD acts like shes afraid of me!! WTF.

So, Friday DH went to go pick up SD and BM was a no show. Again.

DH gets a call from SD saying she isn't feeling good and wants to stay home and DH just says fine. Then he says he will get her tomorrow (sat) if shes feeling better. SD didn't know what to say, she got really quiet and monotone. DH went and got SD on sat. I'm assuming because BM needed a baby sitter.

Anyway, SD was acting very strange. Very quiet, almost uncomfortable looking. DH asked her several times if she was ok or if something was wrong. She just said no, shes fine. SD9 would play with BD5 for a while, and then her mood would completely change. SD would get up and walk away, ignoring BD. Saying she didn't want to play with her anymore. Very strange. Then Sun morning, SD broke one of my small green houses I have in my kitchen (for my herbs) and she ran into her room. I guess she was hiding. BD5 came to me and said "I'm sorry mommmy, SD didn't mean to do it, it was an accident" I just said, "It's okay, not your fault" Then, I'm in the kitchen sweeping up the glass and I hear BD in SDs room say "SD, was it accident?" I hear SD say real snotty yes! and BD5 says "Well, it was an accident, just go tell mommy you're sorry" LOL I couldn't believe my 5 year old had to tell her older sister to apologize for breaking something. I was shocked!! As I'm on the floor cleaning up the glass I hear "Sorry" from SD standing behind me. I just said "It's ok, it was an accident" Hmm, was it? Why did she run and hide in her room and not tell me she broke it?

SD acts likes she starting to be afraid of me! I can't believe it. I've never once yelled at her, spanked her or anything like that. I dont know where this is coming from. I've always been nice to her and done everything I can for her. I dont know what the hell is going on.

SD was also acting weird towards DH. Hateful almost. Not in what she was saying, but the evil looks she was giving him. It was creepy.

I dont know whats going on........

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Yes, but would her BM have

Yes, but would her BM have yelled at her for something like this? I found this to be the case with my SS12... when he was younger, (9,10) if he spilled a glass of milk, or broke something or anything like that he would get all scared looking like DH or I were going to yell at him. Neither one of us ever had, but from different little things he told me about BM I'm pretty certain that if he spilled or broke things at home that he would get screamed at.

SS told me a story once about how he and BM went to pick up his older 1/2 brother (that she had with another guy when she was 16) and I guess 1/2 bro was a little late coming out of school and had this picture that he had drawn, when he got int he car BM freaked out on him because he was late and ripped up his picture. SS said he actually taped it back together for his brother later and gave it to him. I mean seriously... what a freaking bitch.

Wow! Thats really sad to hear

Wow! Thats really sad to hear that she would rip up her sons drawing.
From what SD has told us, and from the things that SD has done recently with no discipline from BM...there is no discipline at home from BM. SD pretty much does what she wants, when she wants.