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BM is blocked from DH's FB but messages him through SD's FB account

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Submitted by stepmom31 on Sat, 04/16/2011 - 7:40pm

I am now finding this out. BM used SD's FB account to msg DH.

Started with "Hi, this is X" then talked about how they will manage SD's FB usage and ends with "I dunno why've you've blocked me on FB, I already know what you look like ;)"

DH actually replied to the part about SD, saying that it would be "awesome!!!" if he knew her password and could monitor her usage as requested by BM, but no response about blocking her.

I dunno why I feel shitty about this. Sometimes I wish he would respondly strongly to stuff like this and say something along the lines of, "Because I don't want to see your ugly face," (Yeah, yeah, he can't say this on SD's account, just dreaming)
or "I have a new life now and I am entitled to my privacy" etc.

Why do BM's really think that there's still something about them that their ex-es should be interested in?

And it totally sucks that even though BM is blocked, she has full access through SD's account.

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Sat, 04/16/2011 - 7:58pm

What bothers me is that she's doing this in a place where SD can read the messages. The next time she does this, DH can reply, "BM, I would like to talk with you about the skids but I will not be responding to any further fb messages. If you wish to contact me regarding a true emergency, you have my phone #s. If you wish to contact me about regular parenting decisions, you have my email address. Thank you, (DH's name).