Get Out Now!! Life is going to be difficult enough for that boy and his mother without your attitude. I really believe if you truly loved the mother, you'd take on the kid and be kind to him. Do everyone a huge favor, including yourself, and move on. Be kind, but be honest. Don't make the mother think because of her son, you're leaving. Don't do that to the boy. Be a man and tell her it's YOUR perspective in that you don't want to raise another one's kid. Period. You take the blame for the relationship not working, don't let the kid.

Well it all depends on how you manipulated the situation! If you get with a woman with a child and you are with her for two years and you love that woman and you tell her that you love the child as your own. When does it all of a sudden become a problem? It does take a special mature man to be a step parent (or women for that matter). I am the girlfriend and what he is not saying is that he is 11 yrs older and has 3 kids of his own! As far as my son, he is 5 and he loves and respects his stepfather! He was never forced into anything he persued this relationship not me!

Yep! Not to mention he had my son call him DAD! Oh and it's not get alone it's get along! He doesn't try. He is gone all the time. When he is home he is on the computer. Also he locks himself in the bedroom! The last time we did anything us three was back in Otcober! No parks and no movies no playing! He didn't try! I never pushed for him to love my child, but we did agree if we were to be together he would understand that my child is a part of OUR life. The rest he did on his own.

But the relationship is over! Also he said he won't hurt anyone else like he did me and my son. I really hope he keeps his word!

My goodness, I could of written this question myself, I'm a woman though, and I am expected to do everything a mother would do for my step child, except I can't find it in my heart.