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O/t O.B. appt didn't go well today

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Submitted by corgimom on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 6:25pm

I'll make this short and sweet.. today was my first O.B. appt for my pregnancy. I'm supposed to be about 10.5 weeks along.. the doctor said all the tests look normal and I'm doing everything right. She did the ultrasound to find the baby, and she said it doesn't look good. Either I have way overestimated how far along I am, or the baby stopped growing. She said it didn't even look big enough to be 7 weeks along. I had blood drawn today to measure my hormone level and I'm getting it measured again on Friday, to see if it's gone up or down. She didn't sound too hopeful though.. and said this will probably end in a miscarriage.

I know it's common.. just I didn't figure it would happen to me, and it's hard. We've already made all these plans and now they're just going down the drain. I just want to go to sleep.

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Submitted by Still Have Hope on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 6:40pm

HUGSS, I went thru something similar a few years ago. Sorry you have to face this. I know it is hard but try to stay positive.

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Submitted by marissamae88 on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 6:50pm

omg I am sooo sorry. I cant even imagine going thru this. Keep your head up my thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Submitted by Most Evil on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 6:56pm

Oh I am so sorry honey. I will pray that you get some extra strength to see you through this. HUGS

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Submitted by queen-B on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 10:06pm

I am so sorry...I just miscarried the same way on Valentine's day, I feel your pain. My prayers are with you.

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Submitted by CaptainD on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 10:16pm

Sorry sweetie.... very tough, especially when its your first pregnancy. I got preggers in june 2009.... miscarried a few weeks later right after I found out I was even pregnant. I was so excited and miscarriage had never even entered my mind until bam, I was cramping and bleeding... went to er and they said there's no heartbeat you're def miscarrying. Thought something was wrong with me, that I couldn't have kids or something! Happy to say that I am now 30 weeks along, healthy baby.

Miscarriages are so common... but very hard. You'll get through it, and go on to have a healthy babe. Smile

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Submitted by corgimom on Thu, 03/24/2011 - 6:42am

Thanks, everyone. I guess I'm hoping for the best; I just don't want to be extremely disappointed again. Beee

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Submitted by z3girl on Thu, 03/24/2011 - 10:51am

I'm so sorry for you! It's very difficult to go through that. My failed attempt at IVF was horrible, and I didn't even miss a period. Try again as soon as the doctor allows and we'll all keep our fingers crossed for you.

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Submitted by TheBrightSide on Thu, 03/24/2011 - 11:56am

2009...two IVF treatments, two miscarriages at 10/11 weeks. Worst, WORST time of my life.

Hugs to you. I hope you just miscalculated your timing.

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Thu, 03/24/2011 - 12:04pm

So sorry about this! My first pregnancy ended up being a tubal which required surgery to remove. I swore I could never risk going through that again and didn't want to get pregnant again. About a year later I did, and that pregnancy ended in a miscarriage at 11 weeks. I gave up after that, but by complete suprise, I became pregnant again 3 years later and now have my beautiful BS1 so keep your chin up, there is hope! And maybe they just calculated your conception date wrong!

you'll be in my prayers.