Once again SO and I are fighting about his children. I really don't think him and I have a future especially if we are not on the same page. Once again one of BDs (the eldest who doesn't come over because she had a temper tantrum because she had to share a room with her sister) called and asked if my SO could take her to practice tonight. No biggie....but this is the second time (once being just this past Friday) that she has asked for a ride and then at he last minute his other daughters tag along. The BM didn't bother to call and ask if he would take the other girls with him they just walk out. What is he suppose to say NO? I blame the BM. I know he is their father but this is a constant thing. BM just does whatever the hell she wants. It's waaaaaaaay to cold for the other girls to be sitting at a field while their sister is at practice. They just got over a stomach virus yesterday and shouldn't have been out period.

The oldest has been seeing an Orthodontist for the past year preparing her for braces. Now, the eldest has written my SO off but o course she comes around when she needs a ride like today. She doesn't even text him (and we all live a hal mile from each other.) Nothing...She begged and cried that her mom take her to get her braces right then and now instead of waiting an extra month. The BM did this all behind my SO's back and then has the nerve to give him the payment book for the braces. Now granted he is obligated for every other month (she set it up NOT him and TOLD HIM that is how it's going to be.) All she had to do is wait one month and we could have paid our half in full. Right now we are not budgeted for these braces that were just put on without knowing. Right now it's tight for us financially.

BM and daughter say jump and SO doesn't even ask how high....he just does it.