Me and my fiance have been together for 4 yrs. now. He has 2 daughters, ages 22 and 23 and a 2 yr old grandson. I have 2 sons, ages 25 and 12. The relationship with his kids has not been very good since weve been together, although I must say I get along quite well with the oldest daughter. Its the other one who I have a problem with. She is in college and has been for the last 4 yrs. But when she comes home to visit, she makes a point not to speak to me, and also makes it clear to anyone around that she hates me. Her father has even tried talking to her about it, and all she will say is "I dont wanna talk about it". This makes it really hard to solve whatever problem she has with me. Her own sister has even told her to quit treating me that way, that she should respect me because I am their dads gf. I cant even talk to this girl, she never replies back. I told my fiance that the next time she comes into town I am going to leave the house when she visits. I get the worst feeling around her,(bad vibes and negative energy)I cant stand being around people like that. she seems so miserable and unhappy. I kinda feel sorry for her to have to carry such an angry emotion around (referring to the "hate" emotion)I should also mention that she treated my fiances last gf the same way. This was alot of the reason they split was because of his kids. But I still love my fiances children simply because I love him so much.