Spit upon! Have any of your EX’s spit on you?
Wednesday night my BF picked up his kids s13, d11, and sons best friend T. for church. They
had a wonderful night. When they returned back to bm’s she was waiting on the driveway. She had been served that day for contemp. Remember she came into our church Christmas eve and took the kids and told them BF couldn’t have them even thought the CO said he was to have them until Christmas day at noon.)
He opened the door to let the kids out and out bm started yelling and screaming at him saying she hates his Fing guts wants him to be dead, etc. Shaking her fist at him then she started spitting on him. The problem was he was hugging the kid’s goodnight so she was spitting on them too! Her
New husband the “door matt” had to grab her and hold her back from hitting my BF, and to keep her from spitting on HER kids. This happened in her cul de sac where all her neighbors saw and heard her screaming out to control.
BF got back into the car as the new husband “door matt” held back Bm. S13’s best friend T looked at BF and said he had never seen anything like that before. BF apologized and said nor should you have to. I cannot imagine how embarrassed S13 is to have his friend see his mom act like that.
D11 started texting me right after it happened saying she was feeling sad and mad. I texted her back for about and hour and let her know this was not her fault. She told me I was the only person that could make her feel better. What is wrong with this woman!! She gets progressively more out of control.
When BF goes to court, he is going to ask for a communication clause to be put in their agreement so that he does not receive her 20 or more text a day and have some kind of arrangement to pick up the kids so that they are not exposed to this insanity again. Does any one know how a communication clause works or is worded?
How can a mother treat her own children like this???? By the way, she has a Psychology degree and is the head RN at a home for troubled teens! I am not joking!
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If you could get the wording
If you could get the wording for us that would be great...
I will hang in there! He is so worth it, I do get tired of it sometimes...it is overwhelming, epecially when I feel helpless in helping the kids. But then I take a deep breath and remember what I have in him and he does everything he can to do to make us all feel safe and secure.
Thank you!
No, he didn't because she
No, he didn't because she didn't actually hit him. But we have been told if he could have called the police, and it would have been treated as assault. Also "Doormatt" is an ex cop. That just adds to complication.
BF will be telling this story to the judge when they go to court. Don't you think they will do something?
What a shame!! That would
What a shame!! That would have been terrific to have videoed that incident, then shown it to the judge.
Actually, if videoed, you could have told her if she didn't stop the nonsence, you were posting the video on YouTube so others can see her destructive insane ways....including those she works with.
That woman is an absolute nut case.
We had to get some very
We had to get some very specific things put in an order recently because of BM. I like to call her BatshitCrazy. She has gotten increaseingly crazy at pickups and drop offs over the past 5 yrs and the poor kid would always just hang his head and cry. So now pickup and dropoff are at school only. Unless school is out then it is at the McDonalds parking lot with a neutral witness present. She is also not allowed at the school when we have him because both of the 2 days after the order was ordered she caused a nuttjob scene there. 1st in the office when we went to give them the paperwork. She made a fool of herself in front of parents teachers and staff. Then in the parking lot she said she didnt agree with the order so she got there before us and drug ss8 across the parking lot to her car. Principal called cops. Her lawer was pissed. That was one of the few times the system worked for us. Prolly only because there was so many witness'
You Tube, love the idea...But
You Tube, love the idea...But I think she might like it. She has a picture on her and my BF from their wedding posted on FB, even though she has been remarried for almost 3 yrs and they have been divorced for 5. She likes attention. Any kind, she will create drama just for the sake of drama.
Time for pick ups and drop
Time for pick ups and drop offs to be at the police station. Also, that is not just assault, but aggravated assault.
BTW, speaking if a charge was made to DHS - she spit on the kids too didn't she not to mention assaulting a parent in their view - that would cause all sorts of problems for her at work.
Shoulda called 911. Spitting
Shoulda called 911. Spitting is assault and BM should have been hog tied and hauled off to spend the night in jail and had even more charges levied against her.
No person should have to deal with these types of idiots expecially their own or any one elses children.
Time for BF to get custody, nail her ass to the wall for CS and force supervised visitation.
IMHO of course.
Good Luck.
That is vile and I would have
That is vile and I would have called the police. Deadly diseases can be transferred in this manner if there were any open cuts or wounds on your husband or the kids for that matter.
The epitome of the bitter BM!!!!
Whateva