How do you feel when you have to drag your kids into your van, kicking and screaming? How does it feel to have your little girl and your little boys run to hide in closets and cabinets to try and get away from you?

How does it feel when, as soon as you get your kids for your EOWE visitation, your precious little 9 year old girl, who you once dressed up like a little doll and took such great care of, calls her dad begging him to come get her, asking him how much longer she has to stay with you, telling him 'I want you', asking him for a shirt or any of his possessions to bring with her to mom's house just so she can have a piece of him with her?

How does it feel when your boy is calling his dad, screaming and crying 'COME GET ME!!!!!' when he is with you?

How the hell did you turn so cold hearted towards your kids? Or even towards your ex (now my DH) who took such good care of you and the kids for so many years?

Do you really believe it's good for the kids to be so fucking sneaky? I mean really, to get them in the morning and promise to return them in the evening (after being found in contempt of court), only to tell us later that the kids were not coming home? To refuse to tell us where the kids are staying? To have the kids tell us later that you got married? How did it feel to lie to your kids, and tell them that you were bringing them home to Dad, and then to shock them with a wedding ceremony, and then make them tell him you got married?? How did it feel when they called their dad crying and trying to come up with every excuse to make him come get them?

How does it feel to be a deadbeat mom, after accusing DH of being a deadbeat dad (because he was taking care of the kids, and not you)? Pay your fucking child support, bitch.

why dont you go somewhere and just fall off the face of the earth. You do more harm than you will ever do any good. Youre teaching sd bad ways always shacking up with new men. She might turn out to be a slut like you are. I hope to God she wont be though. Stop using sd for your selfish advantage. You get free government help just by keeping her with you instead of letting dh raise her like you know he should. He's a way better role model than you will ever be. Pretty soon all this will blow up in your face and I hope it does soon. Karma's a bitch and its going to get you hard.

Have you found a womb donor for out-of-wedlock spawn #5?

Is mommy still raising your younger children for you?

Still living in mommy and daddy's rental property rent free I see.

Once a dirt bag, always a dirt bag.

It is pretty sick when the conversations your spawn have together all include ridiculing you.

Too bad retroactive abortion is not legal. I would love to watch your father execute that right.

and so on, and so on and so..........

I would love to give him a huge lecture on his shortcomings but he is intellectually incapable of processing anything more than a one liner.

Why do you lie to the girls about me and DH, is it so they will like you more? Why do you on talk your crap on the phone but never to my face? If my DH was so bad when you had him why do you tell him now I messed up so bad leaving you? And news flash when you cheat on your husband your cheating on your kids too- cause you had to leave them somewhere when you did who/what you did!!!! PS I don't want the girls living with us full time! I like my alone time with my husband whenever I want it

BM2, why did you continue getting pregnant ahd have 4 children with your most recent XH, who you filed DV charges against long before you got pregnant with the last 3? You knew he was violent! You lost SD because of him, and now you will never get her back.

BM3, why do you feel that DH should repay your debt when he strictly forbade you, in writing, to take out said loan, and he also refused to use his information to apply for joint credit cards? Why do you tell friends and family that he left you with a mountain of joint debt, when the judge told you in court that he was not liable for any of the debt and that you'd better learn to live within your actual means.

BM3, why do you continue to engage in constant petty control battles with your first XH? If you still want to talk to him so badly, get back together with him. If not, drop it. He's a good dad. I'm sorry he left you but you are a real bitch to be married to. You can't treat people that way. DH couldn't take it anymore, and he DID talk to you about it. You said "Ok, sorry" and went ahead and did what you always do-which is whatever you want.

Um, I think I would say nothing. There was a time when I probably would have lots of questions/comments. Now I just dont care. Maybe that's what I would tell her. I dont care. I dont care if you tell your son all sorts of lies about me, I dont care if you try and turn him against me or dh, I dont care if you waste his cs money on cigarettes and your man rather than buying him clothes. I not only dont care anymore, but I feel sorry for you because you are stuck with the ss that you created!

Dear bm,
How does it feel now that your three kids don't call or text or email or facebook you because they have their own lives and simply look back at their miserable childhoods and pity you? Do you wish you could change one lie or one tantrum for the good of the children? Do you regret missing your only daughters college graduation and her wedding? Are you prepared not to see your grandchildren someday? Are you proud that your daughter grew up to be a victim just like you are? Why didn't you teach your children manners and kindness and generosity and how to simply be good people?

Do you know that every birthday, mothers day and anniversary card I get now from your EX is so sweet and charming and tells me how every day with me is the best of his life and he can't wait for the next one? Do you know we have sex A LOT and I've never had to beg for it? Did you know your ex mil gave me the ring you always thought would be yours because I make her son smile and laugh and play again? And because I didn't ask for it like you did or ask how much it was worth.

Do you know that I feel sorry for you for losing what I have now? And lastly, because of the pain you put my dh and his children through, I'll never forgive you and will wish bad things on you forever.

Love, sixteensmom