I walk in the door yesterday and my BD13 immediately asks "why do I have to look at SS13 underwear everyday?" I look at her with a puzzled look on my face and she continues......he's wearing purple pants and bright red underwear, why do I have to see this?

My SS13 who is very skinny always wears pants that are too big! He likes the skinny jean look but likes them baggy if that makes sense! His skinny jeans hang down to the bottom of his butt! He looks ridiculous but his BM is ok buying a size 32 for a kid who is a 27 waist. Everyday we tell him to pick up his pants, he refuses to wear a belt, and chooses to use a shoe lace. He does the side to side walk, keeping his legs spread enough so pants dont completely come off.

My DH buys him the right size of pants but BM doesnt so we have to look at his underwear daily! Not only that but on weekends when he gets up he walks around in his underwear. I feel this is inappropriate because my BD13 is home too. She doesnt walk around in her bra and panties so why is it ok for SS to show us all his underwear?

DH tells him to get dressed, pick up his pants etc but it never stops! Yesterday DH asked me what was wrong with BD because SS said she was being mean to him. I told him what I knew of the underwear incident and he laughed. He said he told SS to pick up his pants.

I would think after being told a billzillion times that something would change. If SS refuses to wear a belt then I think DH should not allow him to wear those pants! Why does DH still find this funny? Maybe I should walk around in my under clothes this weekend just to get my point across!! }:) I'm guessing that would be viewed as "different"....of course!!