BM wouldn't give DH anything. He had an old asteroids machine that she hated and then she fought him for it. He got out with his clothes. He had some expensive tools and I think she sold some of his stuff. He has one huge circular saw that she says she still has. But yeah - she wouldn't give him anything. Last week, when we had our huge meltdown, she kept saying to DH over and over again "But YOU LEFT ME!!" "This isn't my fault - YOU LEFT ME!!" Mind you - DH left her literally 13 years ago.

Thank you so much they8ntmine... you helped me unlock that.

Nah nothing here, she just gave him all of the offcasts and uycky old things in the garage.. noice.. gives me an excuse to revamp tho

A new bed they had recently bought under her name, five years ago when she left.

EWWWWWW! I'm sure it wasn't that she expected you to use them, it was that she wanted you to have the visual of him using them on HER... YUCK!

BM here moved out of my fiance's house and left some random stuff. An entire box of high school photos and baby photos of she and her daughter, tons of perfumes and sprays and lotions (really expensive kinds too, with barely a spray used), and loads of holiday decorations. I gave everything back to her in boxes as I systematically purged the house of BM.

Took everything and, after 7 years, is STILL holding DH's baby pictures, fathers' flag from his coffin, and other irreplacable things hostage. Nice, huh?

BM initially left with very little, but kept sneaking back in to take things that wouldn't be noticed right off the bat (salad master, torilla warmer, mainly kitchen things). He finally wised up and changed his garage door code when she wanted the patio furniture-which he hated anyway-but came and picked it up without him even being there! All in all, nothing we really wanted anyway. When we became serious and knew we were getting married, we started buying all new furniture...room by room...so really, nothing left of exW, except the pics in the kids rooms...

Her oldest child that was not biologically SO's. He lived with SO for quite some time after BM left. He now lives with his grandmother.

Mother Russia made up a “special box” when DH finally left her… inside it was a note and a voodoo doll made of wax and some of his hair… she put in a tiny bottle of hot sauce that the note explained she wished nothing but that would ever flow from his dick. (nice huh?) she also put in a mug with his face on it… she took an ice pick to its forehead and carved a huge hole. There were some other crazy items in her black voodoo box of damnation, but those ones stand out in my mind. She basically cursed him… and he took some pretty weird steps to remove the curses.

Apparently the moral of that story is don’t cross an angry Russian… at least don’t try it with a weak constitution.

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Mother Russia waited till DH was out of the house to buy herself some “bedroom toys”… she made sure they were lying around where he could see them the first couple of times he was back at her house. He said they were *monstrous* in size… and that it also probably explains why she was never satisfied in bed.

BM refused to let my DH have any of his stuff back. She even killed his fish. Finally, she told him he could have his album collection.

She had scratched them all up.

Bahahaha - too funny! After DH and I started dating, XW#2 was preparing to move out of their house into a new one she couldn't afford but she asked him if he wanted some things like the kettle grill and some bags of clothing. He told her he did so we went to pick them up and when he took the lid off, there was the remains of a videotape that had been burned. DH later told me that video tape was a home video of her using a beer bottle as an adult "toy". LOL. When he saw it, he asked her if that's what he thought it was and her face turned 10 shades of red and she stormed off! HAHA!! And then her stbDH followed her asking "what does THAT mean?" HAHAHA!

I got two things of note from my XW. A pair of elephant skin cowboy boots and a recipe for queso.

That was it.

She tried to take our bed, I brought it to the marriage but she wanted it because "it is the most comfortable bed I have slept in" and she wanted my washer and dryer. I brought them to the marriage but "they are better than the ones I have".

We decided that we would split our possessions by who brought them to the marriage or who's friends and family gave the items as gifts. I left with nearly everything since I brought most of the appliances and furniture to the marriage or my family gave us the item.

She did keep the vacuum and the microwave which I replaced for ~$120 at Service Merchandise.

She did not return the engagement/wedding ring I gave her. In fact, a mutual friend saw her wearing it several years after our divorce. Apparently she liked it better than the one her second husband bought her so she wore mine. :?

My XW did not try to give me anything weird. She did try to get me to buy her a car though. "You got a new car while we were married you should buy me a new car".

My response: "I agree with your logic. I owned three cars when we married now I only have one. You owe me two cars." She got PISSED!!!! :jawdrop:

That was the last interface we had before I moved out of state to go back to school full time.

Best regards,

She gave him nothing from their time together, but did give him his children's baby books, and his clothes, and any of his tools that weren't worth any real money.

She took everything that was worth anything and sold it on Craigslist, and pocketed the cash.

One wierd thing she did, though, was to call him and tell him that she was pregnant, it was his, and that she wasn't giving the baby his last name and that he was never going to see it. This was after a few hours of texting him and he wouldn't respond to her. So he very calmly texted back that if and when she had a baby, he would be mandating a paternity test, and that he would have it 50% of the time, if not more due to her clearly demonstrated mental instability.

She amazingly turned out NOT to be pregnant (she found out the very next day!) and she got her tubes tied a few months later. I couldn't believe the craziness.

Lets see, bm didn't really give dh anything in fact she tried to keep EVERYTHING including dh's sisters table that she let them borrow! Dh had to get it in the papers that he get all that back and all his family's things that wasn't even theirs!

A few months after dh went to get his stuff escorted by police bm gave dh a BUNCH of pics a lot with the kids but mainly pics of just her, along with a lot of their wedding! Dh was so upset that he threw away all the ones of their wedding and kept the ones of the kids and I think he kept a few for the kids but then again he says that they have all the pics at their moms of her that they need. I do know the boys keep a pic of her in their wallets.