One would hope, but I truly would be surprised if she were mortified or embarrassed in the least. She'd just be pissed that I'd gotten access to her page.

The woman is crazy. She'd never get over it. For some reason, she insists on being the troll that lives under it.

She has her page with everything set to private. SIL set up a fake account of some random guy & sent a friend request & not surprising at all, she accepted.

Thing is, she has this "boyfriend" that has been in & out of her house a number of times over the last 5-6 years. He's a doormat. He pays her bills & stays as long as she'll allow him to, but when she gets a wild hair, or if he speaks up about something she's done wrong, she throws him out until bills come due again. In fact, there have been times he's paid her rent & utilities AFTER she's thrown him out. If he had a little bit of self-esteem, he'd be a really decent guy. She just accepted a friend request from him...again...2 days ago, & then posted this dedication to DH this morning. So, of course, the BF is going to see it. Sadly, he'll stay with her anyway. I have NO idea what the guy sees in her, aside from him just being so blinded by "love" he can't see her foot in his face everytime he tries to speak up for himself. He ALWAYS accepts ALL of the blame for EVERYTHING when they break up. He won't date other women. He simply accepts the idea of having to "love her from a distance" when she throws him out.

I'm not surprised, at all, that she still has feelings for DH. I've known it. I just never imagined she would feel so deeply about it, & seriously...11 years later???

I keep DH posted on BM & skids & what they post. We have no contact with them, so FB spying is how we keep up with them as they grow. I have to admit, I am more into it & will delve & search with vigor to get information. I think DH would be fine without the updates. LOL!

BM will be 39 in November. I would like to think she'd be horrified to find out I'd seen it, but truthfully, I'm not convinced. I haven't told DH, & he never does anything with internet, so he won't see it. I'm debating whether it's something to mention, or something I just need to leave alone.

I don't see reason to pass the message on to DH. She left him & the kids 4 times. She claimed to regret it every time. I think she only regrets her choice because he's happy with someone else. If he were miserable without her, she'd be fine.

BM used to call & leave messages for DH on his birthday & anniversary. Oddly enough, their anniversary was on April Fool's Day. I've made him aware of the fact that he pretty well asked for what he got in choosing that day. LOL!

Her & the kids would leave messages singing the Happy Anniversary song on his voicemail & then she would leave her own little message about how she still thinks of the 4 of them as a family...blah, blah, blah. This happened for 6 years after he & I moved in together. You'd think if she had any dignity in her, it would've stopped when he moved in with another woman. I do go back & forth with feeling sorry for her & feeling just absolutely livid & sometimes I feel like I can truly forgive her for what she's done & move forward, but then I find myself rehashing everything she's ever done, & then I wish she could find true happiness so we could all heal. It's overwhelming sometimes trying to figure out how to cope with all the crap.

Yep. She supposedly is starting chemo Sept 1st & has dedicated songs to skids & her mom & brother, dad, stepdads (both of them) & now DH.

LMAO! If she wasn't the last house on a dead-end road, I'd likely find it soothing to do it.

Yeah...that's pretty much what I had to say too. :sick: