my step daughter age 6 has adhd shes currently taking adderall 10mg well shes not listening,stealing,cussing,back talking,lying,hitting and throwing temper tatrums when we ask her a question any question even as easy as how was your day shes just stares at us and plays with her fingers or just keeps saying umm to where i cant stand that word shes stealing it started out with just candy now its credit cards insurance cards money jewlary clothes we have tried talking to her about it we have tried asking her why and how would she feel if it happened to her and she just stares and says ummm she will cuss at us and tell us what shes going to do and not do shes lying about everything like one day she told her grandparents that me and her dad punched her in the face we never ever touch her like that we giver her a hug and kiss thats it but b4 she told them that she kept grabbing her face hard to make it red so it would llook like someone had hit her shes hitting and pushing kids shes even tried stabbing a kid with a pencil and scissors she punches my son she punched me in the stomach when i was pregnant we can ask her to pick up her toys and she wont we can ask her to come inside and she wont i need help on what should i do i have heart problems and when i had her while her dad was at work i had to take my stress med everyday since shes been gone i havent had to take it so what does that say i just dont know what to do i know its not jealousy because she was acting like this before i got pregnant she was acting somewhat like this when her mom and dad were together so its not the divorice either shes got kicked out of 4 daycares and came an inch away from being expelled from kindergarden someone PLEASE PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!