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How come it's 'ok" when BM does it, but if we do, she flips a gasket?

Last-Wife's picture

Loghead called Monday afternoon to see when Loca Grande was bringing the boys home. She tells us Lazy Boye was in the emergency room Sunday! She's going to keep him for a few days so they can meet with the doctor to look at the x-rays of his chest. He probably has undiagnosed asthma. But she's tired of PITA's s%$& (her words), so she'll bring him back Monday night for ball practice....

WTF. If we'd taken one of the skids to the doctor for anything- even a hang nail- without telling her, she'd be calling her lawyer! And she waits almost 24 hours to tell us? That woman drives me insane!

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LMR120's picture

My BF BM is the same way. This weekend SS5 broke his elbow after falling off a jungle gym. Do you think she called to tell BF that his son was in the ER? Nope. I couldnt even fathom how upset she would be if we didnt tell her. Its what the do because they are the primary custodian so they by law dont need to tell the dads anything.

LMR120's picture

Yup ... PAS at its best. See how much mommy loves you? daddy doesnt care cause hes to busy with his whore to come see how you are doing.

SteppingUp's picture

SOOOO true of so many people. If they are in control, no big deal. The minute they appear to lose control of a situation (if you were to take the skids to the ER, for example) they LOSE IT!

Shaman29's picture

Take them to the doctor, dentist or hospital and we're wrong. Don't take them to the doctor, dentist or hospital and we're wrong. I love that song! Blum 3

stepmom2one's picture

Yes this is so common with BMs.

And should he really be attending ball practice???

Storm76's picture

Slightly different in my case - BM will always call OH if SS10 needs to go to the doctor, hospital etc as he's expected to drop whatever he's doing (even if he's at work) to rush back to drive them there!