NFH has visitation EOW. BM tries to allow visitation according to what mood she's in or what's going on in her life. I do appreciate all the extra days off she gives me from all the missed visits but for NFH sake I'd like to know his rights for when her PAS attack passes this time.

She starts her trash talking about me & my BK's (whom she's never met), then if I do or say anything in return she has a psycho fit on NFH about how she's going to court b/c of the drama I'M causing for him. She feels she can say whatever she wants to me & I have to take it, if I say anything in return NFH can't see the kids! Well I don't take it to say the least. She can dish it, but can't take it, so her contacting me is few & far in between these days but it seems contact is inevitable.

What are NFH rights with the visitation order? She gets mad at me? No visit. Mad at him? No visit. Family visiting from out of town? No visit. Church event? No visit. Family event? No visit. Something better to do in BM's opinion? No visit. That's how it goes. Can she do this if NFH does'nt agree? If NFH misses a visit for one of her reasons or another is he still entitled to those days to be spent with him or does he "lose" these days?