How Immature BM Is
So yesterday was SS10 birthday, BM usually calls for a 2 minute how are you on Saturday's and Sundays.... and SS10 is the one that talks to her more than SS13 dose. Well she didn't call on Saturday, so my Husband text messaged her just as a reminder not to forget to call on SS10's b-day. Well that call never came instead he got a short Happy Birday via e-mail, his comment was is that it? but the weekend before she was asking what he wanted for his b-day and making it sound like she was going to send him something, nothing came and no call.
So SS10 sent an email last night asking why she didn't call. He got a response of well I am upset and hurt by you for calling me by my first name (note that he did that over 3 weeks ago and she talk to him last weekend). It's your kids birthday, punishing him for feeling hurt and calling her by her first name weeks later is just plain stupid. She is doing nothing to help the relationship that she has manage to torpedo. She left them and moved, he shouldn't have to kiss ass to make her feel wanted it should be the other way around. I so just want to give her a pice of my mind.
well dispite that we gave him a really good birthday, and at least he feels safe and loved by the family he has now.
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What a bitch! Sounds like
What a bitch! Sounds like she forgot his birthday or spent the money on something else, and so made up any excuse to get out of having to explain why his mom hadn't even sent him a card, let alone a present!
Poor kid
"God never gives us more than we can cope with, I just wish he didn't have such faith in me!"
Wow - emotional blackmail
Wow - emotional blackmail anyone? That's horrible of her to be THAT selfish, she can't even wish her own son Happy Birthday. What was DH's take on it?
Your SS is lucky to have you and I'm glad that he had a good birthday in spite of his mother.
"There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority, and control over - your mind and your mouth".
DH was pissed, even after he
DH was pissed, even after he had sent her a text the day before reminding her and him getting a rude "f-u I don't need to be reminded" response back from her.
Two things: Our BM never
Two things: Our BM never acknowledges her own childrens' birthdays unless they happen to be at her house the closest to their birthdate. I've decided it's a protection she has for herself- "oh, I "lost" my kids and I was in labor for hours but they aren't with me now." She's too messed up to see she just hurts the kids when she doesn't call.
First name: Even when she was still married to my DH she had the kids called her "Momma ______," using her first name. I never understood that...
Over time, the kids dropped the "momma" part and just call her by her name. I'm "mom."
(Does that mean I win?! LOL)
"I HAD to pick the road less traveled..."