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Ani's picture

Submitted by Ani on Tue, 01/26/2010 - 1:12pm

Every time SS13 behaves bad or losses something his dad and the SS13 get all work up and its all drama over here.They started SS13 mediction....in a pills form.....so this monday morning his ddad is looking for the pills like crazy asking me if I tiik them from the spot he put them in.......I had to say NO 3 times yet SS13 kept saying he didn't take them, and since his dad didn't take them I was the only other person left to ask.....I was very up set about this 13 year boy losing and misplacing things all the time at our home and his dad asking me if I know where they are. Later I found the pills in the kitchen garbage can.....he (SS13) throw them away since he doesn't like taking pills, so I told my boyfriend that I was hurt and very up set by these behavior ....he said it won't happend again....I was just wondering do some of you get blame for stuff like this too?

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Pantera's picture

Submitted by Pantera on Tue, 01/26/2010 - 1:33pm

I used to get blamed for this kind of stuff and everything else. I let my DH start catching SS9 himself so that he could see it wasn't me. Needless to say after catching him all of the time, he knew things were not my fault and it stopped.

Example, next time leave the pills in the trash and when he asks where they are, tell him he should check the trash can. When he asks how they got there, tell him to ask his son.

"If I turn into another, Dig me up from under what is covering the better part of me" -Incubus

Ani's picture

Submitted by Ani on Tue, 01/26/2010 - 3:50pm

Good idea....I will try making sure this dad knows what is going on...thanks so much......seeing that I'm not the only one in here helps me cope somewhat......hugs Ani

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Submitted by pjk38 on Tue, 01/26/2010 - 2:05pm

Blimey, if being a stepmum is challenging enough without having to deal with nonsense like this. I think a little more appreciation is needed!

Shell97's picture

Submitted by Shell97 on Thu, 01/28/2010 - 4:01pm

I agree with SBS....being a step(parent or kid) you get the blame for everything that goes wrong. Hang in there, eventually DH will catch on about SS and realize it isn't you. (((hugs)))