I'd say 4... Maybe... I'm telling ya, we lead busy lives!!!

~*~I'm THE wife. Not wifey or wife material or #2. THE WIFE~*~

6!!!

We had the kids some days, and we can't do the nasty on those days. Our habits are a little... ahem... loud, and costumes are involved, so that makes it too hard to do anything without the kids hearing...

BB

You are not second best, you are not second class. Do not ever let anyone make you feel that way. - 2BLoved

6... would have been 8 had I not had a visit from my lovely friend

Costumes are involved. 6

I have to say 4, but only that few because "monthly things" stopped it from being more. I've only had 2 "open for business" days so far, so 4 is not as bad as it sounds.

0 - yet - had lady issues..... LOL!

********She doesn't have to love me or even like me - it doesn't change a dang thing..... So get over it and move on BM!************

Sigh....three or less. My fiance works loooong hours! Not my fault. He knows the option is always there. I'm more of a once a day kind of girl generally lol.

I once went to a seminar about the difference between men and women wanting sex and it said that a lot of men are 3 times a week kinds of guys. I wonder how many of you find this to be true?

Roflmao... more than 10.. I always tell DH We are freaks! lol.. O well, keeps me sane especially on days SD is here.. Last night my 6 yo son caught us.. OOPS!!!!

Hey my ex cheated on me and I almost never gave it up to him , maybe once a month after the affairs.. No way am I gonna get the blame for DH not gettin what he needs and going elsewhere! Won't be my fault if he ever cheats!

AND OMG Costumes are involved!! I am dying over here! That is awesome... may have to try that!!

LOL, we don't do costumes, but we are into some other things that make a lot of noise and leave marks. I'm just glad our room is the only one downstairs, and it locks. I couldn't live in a house without locks on the bedroom door.

OMG LOL I am horrible I can make no excuses for myself other than I have been soooo tired lately

I am a big fat "1"

I will have to make up for it this weekend - just texted the hubby I am taking his ass out this weekend getting him all liquored up and take total advantage going to make up we will discuss this on Monday LMAO

wild monkey sex........ i am roflmao... ur killing me...

maybe we should set up a poll and keep track.. winner gets a free night away from the skids!!!

and I really would love to have a stripper pole in our bedroom, but not sure how I would explain that to my kids.. anyone have one???

Can a man answer?

10+ so far this year and tonight, tomorrow and Sun AM will be busier. This is a bit more active than usual but SS-17 gets home from Winter visitation on Sunday evening and will not be returning to boarding school (I will blog on that soon) so we will not free run of the house, calenar and clock like we have had for the past 2yrs.

I have to say. He is not even home yet and I miss the carefree hit when we want to days of his time at boarding school.

Now I am depressed and frustrated. :?

Best regards,

Success is rarely final. Failure is rarely fatal. It is character, courage and consistency of effort that count. Vince Lombardi (with some minor Rags modifications) To each according to their performance, screw Karl Marx. (Rags)

It's gonna be a DP weekend!

This week has been slow. But it's a kid-free weekend and watch out. My monthly visitor just left and I'm ready, ready, ready for some action!!!!

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Love me or hate me, I'm still gonna shine!!!

I think twice, but he has been out of town since Tuse and had a visitor before that. He's coming home tonight so we'll make up for last time. Oh yeah, once on the phone, does that count?

WOW!! the candidness here--wheehoo!! I'm gonna say so far up we're up to 4--be 5 after tonite for the new year so far. Mine can be one of those statistical 3 times a week (or less a lot of the time) It was really bad when we lived together especially thru all of the shift changes (sleeping alone completely sucks) I have told him that I feel cheated and that he is too by the way and I blame him completley for being so fine there that I want all the time ;). Tis just another arena the x-idiot made me feel inferior in and way way worse when he'd compare me to his gf. But this one purrs when I do what I do and red river flow? We like water when that time comes around-LOL

**I only have one shot at a truly great life and not one spent waiting for a man to notice me, want me, love me and be true to only me. 2010 is the year of "me" - if you don't want to be a has-been in '10 where I'm concerned better get it in gear and catch up**

toadalchaos... You are right!! water is a great cure for that... get in the shower shut off the lights... its all good!!

Im so sad, we can never do the shower thing except on rare occasions when the house is empty Bathroom is right next to my sons door, he's 13, that would totally gross him out!

You really should look into adding that extra bathroom on, its a great way to switch it up and I gotta say some things are just better with water!!

8-10 (yeah) on his days off it can be 2-6 times that day alone, then everynight on top.

LMAO !!! I bet you get that bathroom as soon as the weather breaks!! lol..GOOD LUCK!

My husband thought he had a "high hormone level", mainly because bm told him he was a sex addict. Apparently she was very traditional. Sorry to be graphic here, but he still has nightmares about her only "missionary" rule. I often wonder how they had two kids, especially since they were so careful - not to have any sex- for such a long time. He told me flat out that she wanted kids, and so she made it happen at the end of their marriage. She was two months pregnant when they broke up. He said it was becasue she was getting older and so she used him to have a baby. How horrible!

And then he met me who has a higher drive than he could have ever imagined. I think it is normal.

Does that number mean in one night or throughout the week?

6. We watched movies two nights and went to bed really late...

I am so glad you guys all have sex as much as I do. Where I work the women act like it's such a chore and they hate doing it. I work with 35 women and only 2 of them have sex as much as I do (or more). We had a toy party once and one of them was so funny to watch...you could tell they were never adventurous in any way in the bedroom. She said, "I do my weekly duty every Wednesday thank you." WTF? And don't even get me started on BJ's (sorry if too crude for some!)...that's like a dirty word around my office. They actually had a conversation one time on how they would use a BJ to convince their DH to buy them stuff. Sorry but if you do it so rarely that you can use it as currency then you're obviously not doing it enough!

BF is glad that we have sex as much as we do too. BM had no desire for sex whatsoever. They would go months or even years at times without having sex. I couldn't be in a relationship where there was nothing going on under the sheets unless we were physically incapable!

*~So sayeth Nymh~*

I am still roflmao. Dh and I got out shower and 2 rounds in. Now he is snorin away beside me. I hate when he is ready to sleep and I want sum more! O well there's always tomorrow and I am anxious to see who is crowned winner of this contest! Lol

Normally we are a 4 times a week, but its been 9...once everyday. We are trying to get preggo! Cant do it tooooo much or it lowers the sperm count! Ha!

"I child proofed my whole house, but they STILL get in!"

Add four to mine!!

Total for the new year: 6 not including oral...total including oral would be 15.

"Venting without the desire to look within and improve your situation is simply venting to hear yourself bitch."

I already updated with Misery via PM, but I also wanted to boast publicly: 3 more for me!

BB

You are not second best, you are not second class. Do not ever let anyone make you feel that way. - 2BLoved

I've already had way more in the last 4yrs with dbf than in 16yrs with Xidiot. :evil:

**I only have one shot at a truly great life and not one spent waiting for a man to notice me, want me, love me and be true to only me. 2010 is the year of "me" - if you don't want to be a has-been in '10 where I'm concerned better get it in gear and catch up**

Ehemm, umm. I can't compete. My count is NOT enough. I'm thinking it's '3'. Apparently I must initiate more. I'll work on that My DH is tired everyday due to work schedule. He should have a better reason to be tired!

one more for me...

"Venting without the desire to look within and improve your situation is simply venting to hear yourself bitch."

Bow chicka wow wow

"There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority, and control over - your mind and your mouth".

Can you add 3 more for me...in addition to the ones i PMd you last week:)

Thanks babe!

"Venting without the desire to look within and improve your situation is simply venting to hear yourself bitch."

..."I'm not mean, you're just a sissy."

Okay, so from last Monday to today add 7 for me!

Zippo for Rags. Skid flunking out of boarding school high stress monthly visitor has Rags out of action. The emotional swings and sore hooters as well as the flood to nothing daily change is killing my libido.

Best regards,

Success is rarely final. Failure is rarely fatal. It is character, courage and consistency of effort that count. Vince Lombardi (with some minor Rags modifications) To each according to their performance, screw Karl Marx. (Rags)

Well it is the 26th... and I would say it has been about 20 times. For some reason this new year brought a new found energy and the SEX has been amazing (like it was in the beginning). We are normally at about 2 or 3 times a week. And both happy with that, but lately it's like we can't keep our hands off each other. It slowed down this past week since I have been painting at the new house, and he has been packing the old house. I am TIRED! I think it is because my mom FINALLY moved out of our house (after 2 years living with us). Her in the room below us, cramped our style!

DISbelief~

~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~

Add two more for me...

~*~When you kiss ass, your breath smells like sh*t~*~

Okay, ive been sick since Wednesday but we still hit it twice.

YES we do have fun even when his are with him here in my space. Hey girls and guys gotta do what they gotta do right? Add another water worship for me please MisnMo?

**I only have one shot at a truly great life and not one spent waiting for a man to notice me, want me, love me and be true to only me. 2010 is the year of "me" **

I think I have an advantage over a lot of you guys... I have the Mirena so I don't get Aunt Flo anymore! :evil:

*~So sayeth Nymh~*

Jealous too Nymh!! but it's so wonderful actually the hot water and.........haha the hormones release and the cramps stop-golly those suck out loud no bc for me causes major medical mayhem (yeah i know pregnancy too) but he's snipped sooo...........yeeha!!

gosh, we're bad but so refreshing to speak out loud on "revolution 2010 often"

**I only have one shot at a truly great life and not one spent waiting for a man to notice me, want me, love me and be true to only me. 2010 is the year of "me" **

Add 1 for Rags please. Damn, having the Skid home instead of @ boarding school really sucks in the nookie department. Sigh........ If he graduates in May and heads to USMC bootcamp then we should get back to every day or two fairly quickly.

Everyone send subliminal graduation vibes to my Skid please.

Best regards,

Success is rarely final. Failure is rarely fatal. It is character, courage and consistency of effort that count. Vince Lombardi (with some minor Rags modifications) To each according to their performance, screw Karl Marx. (Rags)