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Im starting not to like my skids they lie, steal, whine and cry all the time. BM has no dicipline at her house and the skids are more than happy to bring that up when they get punished at ours. Sorry had to get that out.

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I can so relate. It is a

I can so relate. It is a terrible feeling to know this is going to be my life for the next 10 years if we stay married. I can't even blame the kids, it's the parents who allowed them to become, whiny, spoiled, lying brats. I have a hard time with wrapping my head around that one even though I know my DH is at least 50% to blame.

Its crazy isnt it. I mean

Its crazy isnt it. I mean who would have thought to dicipline kids. I mean it is your responsability as a parent to make sure that they are decent human beings one day. My SS5 stole $10 from his babysitter then lied about it the next day he stole from his dad then lied about it. When the babysitter called BM about it she had nothing to say she went quite on the phone. So then the babysitter talked to DH about it when he dropped the kids off on Monday and she was like i didnt realize that there was no dicipline at her house. Are you kidding me we just asked you to go to court last month (thats when custody was established after 2 years of fighting) I dont know why i got myself into this. I wish i could leave.

how old are they? dh and i

how old are they? dh and i discussed before what we would do if ss started to act like this when he gets older....our answer...pack his belongings and drop him off at bm's. let him see how "great" it is over there (eye roll) for an extended amount of time...im sure he will come running and screaming back

He is 5. I told DH that if

He is 5. I told DH that if things didnt change and BM didnt want to get involved with dicipline that it wouldnt be long before I SAY they are not welcome at my home. I dont need to worry about being robbed by my SS. I have a child who doesnt need to see stuff like this because i am trying to raise a decent child. DH told him that if he kept stealing from him then he wouldnt be welcome at the house and trust me i plan to uphold that. Next time he takes something from the house he will be packed up and brought back to BM

I forgot to mention that he

I forgot to mention that he loves being at BMs house because he can do whatever he wants. DH doesnt think that bring him there is a good idea because he will view it as a reward but im at the point i dont care if hes happy about going back to his moms. I dont want a thief at my house.

the fun times only last for

the fun times only last for so long.

ss for a period did want to be at bm's house because he had no rules, got to eat junk, talked back to his mother, and bm was home all day to wait on him hand and foot..........

now ss says that he doesnt want to go to bm's house, he wants to stay at our house, because he has seen the two lifestyles and sees how much better and rewarding ours is. he often says he is always bored at his moms. all he does is ride his bike and play in the mud....at our house, since dh and i both work, we can afford to go places and do things, we go on nice vacations with my parents, and ss gets to live in a nice house with a pool with us.

i would tell dh not to worry, like i said the good times only last for so long, and then ss will miss the structure and see that the kind of lifestyle with bm will get him no where. If he doesnt, than that means most likely, he is pre programmed to be a mis behaved child and will continue to get in trouble no matter what type of influence his father tries to have in his life. And why would you want that under your roof?

I have no idea why I didn't

I have no idea why I didn't see this before we got married. I swear it feels like the kids were on their best behavior till we actually married. There should be a warning like they have on cigarettes for men with children. "Warning you will be unappreciated, lied to, and subject to endless whining for years to come. I can not see any flaws in my children and will refuse to parent them. Proceed with caution as your mental health is at stake" LOL

LOL my DH is the same way.

LOL my DH is the same way. What do you mean the kids are bad. All they have done it scream, fight and lie all weekend. I dont know why you dont want to be a part of the family and participate in things.

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