It took all my strength to wrap SS!16 presents!!!!
Ok, so last night were (dh & I) are wrapping the kids presents my BD7 is asleep, BD14 is spending the night with a friend, and we tell SS16 to hang in room till' wer'e done. You can imagine how well that goes, First trip out of his room , DH doesn't see, the next one he does- he tells him- Hey were wrapping here, yr so possed to stay in yr room! He pops off with "what, is it a crime to go to the bathroom?" I say, well, it is yr second time since we started a few min ago?? SOOO, off he goes with the tempertrantums, whinning im so mean, drops a few "YOUR WIFE" comments, and all, then on to the "she thinks she's my mom" . poor dh trys to have a warm comfy chat, with all his theraputic mumbo jumbo ( he's a drug/alcohol counsleor at our prision) while i quietly continue wrapping the assholes presents and chug my glass of wine! So this morning, I fine in the kitchen, as a "See I can do what I want reminder" he raided the brand new box of cookies, tossed them on the counter and ate only the chocolate ones, unwrapped the roast I cooked yesterday from the fridge and chomped of 5 or so select bites with his teeth!! Oh dear GOD!! I know two things this morning...
#1 bringing it all up to DH only will become more of a problem, therefore pleasing SSahole16
#2 It is getting damn hard EVERY day to Disengage from the behavior!!
I wish I had one of those countdown clocks so I could just watch the time tick away till he's gone!!! Merry friggin christmas!!
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Yep, ! I had to laugh, went
Yep, ! I had to laugh, went to pick of the remains of the cookies, he actually ate all the sandwich middle stuff out of them and tossed it back to the counter!! WHY OH WHY wont my DH deal with this deleberate stuff he does?
I alleady have a padlock on
I alleady have a padlock on one of the cupboards oand a hidden drawer!! otherwise my BD's wouldnt ever have a snack or a peice of bread!! I'd really like to go throw them at him while he's sleeping in bed. yes, its guilt im sure that makes dad not deal with him, but i can't for the life of me understand how he is not able to see what king of a manupilative monster he is creating!!
Great idea, although
Great idea, although throwing it at his head with fastpitch speed would really give me a thrill!! I just wish my spinless DH could see the monster he is creating!!
Hmm.. good idea ! too bad
Hmm.. good idea ! too bad when it started to rot, he wouldnt notice it over the stinch of his alredy disguting room!! I need to just find some strength somehow to not let al this Bullcrap send me to the funny farm!
I've never had chomped on
I've never had chomped on roast, but I get spitty saliva drenched fingers in the cereal box all the time.
how old is your cereal box
how old is your cereal box slimer?
The slimer is 9...she also
The slimer is 9...she also consumes all of my yogert every weekend (my workday breakfast) and make Oreo cookies vanish in a second...oh, and over this past summer complained when i stored food in sons room(lunch food, he's alone all day and needed the macaroini, soup and spaghettios to still exist during the week so he'd have something to eat)...she thought it wasn't fair that i kept the "good food" hidden......hello, dear sd9...we make lunch for everyone on the weekend, you don't need the single serving food so you can make it, eat 5 bites and waste the rest...grr! Ohhh...eewwwe and the nose wiping and hand in the cookie jar/cereal box etc......NASTY!!
That is so gross. He is
That is so gross. He is doing that on purpose to upset you. NO ONE would ever bend down and chomp on a roast--cold. The cookies--he is a slob.
I don't know how you deal with it--is he with you guys full time.
UNFORTUNATELY!!!!!!!!!!!
UNFORTUNATELY!!!!!!!!!!!
HeHatesMe - I think this is
HeHatesMe - I think this is the time your DH would get upset!!
Show him the roast - with the bite marks on it. And then, do not attack SS personally, but rather, say - (In my opinion)...
"Honey, I made a beautiful roast FOR YOU.... for our family! I just wanted this to be a really nice family dinner for us this week. I don't think YOU would ever do that to one of your mom's meals before she had a chance to serve it. What do you think she would do, if you did?"
I think if you take the focus off of SS and put it on your DH when he was a growing young man - and his family - and how he was raised, it might help take some of the sting out of your words. You are also asking for his help... Would he have done that to his mom??? And if he did, what would have been her reaction?
I hope I am making sense here. I just think this is a GREAT opportunity to get DH to see some truly bad behavior. Generally, you don't MESS WITH A MAN'S FOOD!!!
*** A rainbow just threw up on me... and now I'm sh*tting glitter! ***
LOL I would put the
LOL I would put the remainder of the cookies in his dresser drawers..or make chocolate cooking laced with a touch of exlax!
WHat a PIG for biting into the roast? Serve him the rest of it for the entire week untilhe is finished with it.
I would put it on a plate and serve him chew marks and all and say 'here's your roast, you forgot to eat the rest of it ....' ANd SMILE!
If someone behaves like a pig in my family i treat him as such. Sorry.
Focus on Christmas and stand your ground with him. With the attitude he has, he'll get up and go when he's legally 18...they all tend to get pissy adn say ' you cnat' tell me what to do ...etc...'
So does he visit his mom..out of curiosity?