BMs favorite child & MSD's demands for money
Supposedly BM is taking YSD14 on a cruise for her 15th birthday. I am sure it's beyond BM to realize the cost of a cruise, plane tickets to get to the cruise take off destination,as well as passport costs.
Also I dont think BM has ever saved a penny in her life. She can't even keep basic utilities on or food in the fridge. YET she has promised this trip to YSD. I already know how its going to turn out but I keep my mouth zipped 
On a side note though, MSD18 is a senior in HS with a baby. She has $1000 saved for a car. She has asked (not very nicely either) for money from DH to get a new vehicle. I am not really opposed to DH helping her get a vehicle since she has saved some money, she is working and she has a baby.
I guess it's beyond me though how BM can think it's even fair to send YSD on a cruise, yet not help MSD get a car. If there is indeed extra money for such things......
BM and DH's favortism for YSD is so obvious. AND this is exactly why YSD acts the way she does. She is the most entitled, spoiled, bratty kid of the 4.
And about MSD already asking DH for money for a car and he told her NO. Basically she told DH to sell his 2 junkers (these are old "backup" vehicles- not his everyday car) and give her the money from those. Yes she TOLD him that. LOL. I was just overhearing the conversation as I was in the kitchen and when she called DH didn't leave the kitchen. I also heard him say "you can't blame me for that, you can only blame yourself." so who knows what was said......
And in true skid fashion the more "involved" he is with the skids, the more they come to him for money, rides, tools, household stuff etc. We had a nice break from them and it was silence.
Ever since Thanksgiving the requests have been coming in left and right. Not to mention all the stuff they got out of DH from our house. YES- OH Daddddyyyy I see that old phone, can I have it. Daddddyyyy I see you aren'r using those speakers, can I have them. Dadddy dadddy dadddyyyyy :sick:
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OMG before DH and I got
OMG before DH and I got married he had a storage unit with lots of extra household stuff. He is a hoarder (or was before we lived together LOL) and picks up stuff on sale or at garage sales.
Anyways OSD 19 at the time was moving into an apartment with some friends and needed stuff. DH let her take whatever she wanted. Twin bed, couch, furniture, dishes TONS of stuff.
A couple of months later she gets evicted and left all of the stuff there. She didnt even call DH to see if he wanted the stuff back. Yes he gave it to her, but not to have her just leave it somewhere 2 months later. He would have gladly gotten it from the apartment before she left and put it back in his storage unit.
This is what has kept me from
This is what has kept me from giving things to SD22. Her and her ex-husband were always getting evicted and having to move in with family members and who knows what they did with their stuff in between. Plus, she doesn't take care of anything.
LOL! Right! I still have my
LOL! Right!
I still have my first set of plates (13 years old). I bought them at Big Lots.
Why isnt SS13 invited? Sadly
Why isnt SS13 invited?
Sadly (on my part) I dont even feel bad when YSD realizes she isnt going anywhere. She is so mean anyways....
maybe if she didnt TELL him
maybe if she didnt TELL him what he needs to do he would be more inclined to do something for her
Right! But I am not sure his
Right! But I am not sure his head thinks that all the way. He is so used to hearing and giving in to their demands. Anything to get them to shut up; ya know actual parenting is too hard!
After talking to her, he was then pissy all night almost like he was mad that she was demanding money BUT ALSO mad that he doesn't have it to give to her. (Well he kind of does- he has money in savings).
I am this way. I tell DH
I am this way. I tell DH there is no reason to have 5 sets of dishes. It's crazy. he tries to hang on to EVERYTHING because he didnt have much at all growing up.