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I Don't Want To Leave Him, Please Help

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Submitted by youngstepmom84 on Tue, 01/25/2011 - 10:45am

So this is now the second time that my BF's ex-wife has harrassed me via my phone. She started forwarding me text messages that she said were from my BF. They were very sexual and mentioned a particular day that he and I happened to spend the night out apart. I told her to show me the messages straight from her phone if they were in fact real. She then started telling me if I didn't believe it then she didn't care.

I'm Feeling a Little Guilty

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Submitted by youngstepmom84 on Fri, 01/14/2011 - 10:53am

So I gave the responsibilities that come with raising an 11-year old boy back to his father. It's been 5 days now and I have done nothing more than take SS to school in the mornings. My BF picks him up and watches him for the evening while I have some relaxing time.

Now here's where my guilt is creeping in. My boyfriend works a full-time job, now leaves work and rushes to pick SS up from after-school program, comes home and doesn't get alone time (his son is very demanding of attention).

Day One Was A Success

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Submitted by youngstepmom84 on Tue, 01/11/2011 - 10:29am

My BF did a great job yesterday sticking to his promise that I wouldn't have so much responsibility with SS. It was great, I did all I had to do yesterday and BF picked up SS from school. I had dinner ready for when they got home and then I was able to watch a chick flick while they watched "guy tv" in the living room.

It was awesome!!!

Day One- The Background

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Submitted by youngstepmom84 on Mon, 01/10/2011 - 11:24am

Hello, I am a 27 year old dating a man with an 11 year old son from his prior marriage. I have no children of my own and not sure he wants another one anytime soon. We have been living together for over a year and SS has been living with us full-time for almost a year now.
I have taken on the "mom" role and naively thought that just maybe if I showed my boyfriend how great of a mom I can be he would propose and we would have a baby. Hasn't happened. I think this is a major reason why this feeling of resentment has been creeping up on me these past few weeks.