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Submitted by young but wise on Sat, 02/09/2013 - 10:34am

All right, My SO and I agreed that him, I and our BD would stay the weekend with my MIL while the rest of the family was out of town. Just got here before dinner and I already wish I never would have agreed to this. No matter what she cannot mind her own business. BD3m gets a really red/raw neck every now and again because she doesn't ever let air get to her neck. When I talked to the doctor about it she said to use cornstarch.

SS melted my heart last night

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Submitted by young but wise on Thu, 02/07/2013 - 12:29pm

Last night I decided that I was going to sleep in the other room with BD 4m because I was going to see if she would sleep in her pack and play for the first time and I forgot to get batteries for the monitor. SO and I talked about it and then we called SS5 over. We told him that his sister and I were going to sleep in the other room tonight and so if he wanted to, he could have a daddy/son night and have some boy time. Play games, watch movies, cuddle, and sleep in daddy's bed. He was so excited...

I honestly LOVE my SS to death, but...

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Submitted by young but wise on Wed, 02/06/2013 - 12:49pm

I hear a lot of people talking about how they hate their sk and I can totally understand. I have seen people bring up how they are not blood and you shouldn't be expected to love them. I totally agree. It is somewhat of a different story for me however. BM didn't know she was pregnant until she was 6 months pregnant. SO and BM broke up 5 months before she found out and him and I started dating about 4 months before she even found out. I stuck it out and we do the best we can to deal with the situation I did not know I was getting myself into.

Advise Please

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Submitted by young but wise on Mon, 02/04/2013 - 12:35pm

Ok I have been dealing with BM for 4 almost 5 years now. At times I honestly believe she is bi-polar. We have had many many many ups and downs. I have a really hard time being rude or mean to anybody so I usually just pretend nothing happened after one of her spells. Lately she is getting cruel. So, SS5, BD3m, and I stayed at my parents for a week while we were getting all new carpet and trim so that the kids wouldn't be subjected to the fumes and what not. About the 3rd day there, BM texts me asking if we are going to make a CS payment that week.

new and unsure

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Submitted by young but wise on Sun, 02/03/2013 - 3:34pm

Well, one of my friends told me i should come here to vent or get advise. After reading done of the recent posts, i am unsure about this. I see people posting about other people. Talking about how their story is unbelievable and what not. On the other hand i see a lot of good feedback. I see people venting and everyone else talking them through the tough stuff. I know from my own experiences, that when it comes to step kids, blended families, exs, bio kids, and bio moms, nothing is impossible. Some people are completely ruthless when it comes to family.

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