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OK I shouldn't have done it but it made me smile!

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Submitted by Yosemite on Sun, 05/19/2013 - 3:12pm

BM freaked when she heard about our engagement. I haven't spoken to her since September cause we had a falling out. Today I get a text from BM asking what the date of our wedding will be. I felt like messing with her so I texted back and gave her the same date she and SO were married. Then when she responded that we could not use that date cause it was their anniversary, I said Oh SO must've forgotten. It's too late now we already booked the venue.

We haven't set a date or booked a venue, but after her crying and asking SO if he was sure they might not have somehow gotten back together someday, I felt like getting in a little jab. Mature? No. Feel good? Hell ya! }:)

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MarriedaBallessWonder's picture

Submitted by MarriedaBalless... on Sun, 05/19/2013 - 3:39pm

Haa haa haaaa!

Why should their anniversary mean anything. It's a failed marriage. What a twit.

lac925's picture

Submitted by lac925 on Sun, 05/19/2013 - 4:11pm

Ha ha! Good for you! And yeah, what would it matter if it was "their anniversary"? She's not with him anymore, so who cares?

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Submitted by JEEMudder on Sun, 05/19/2013 - 4:32pm

They don't have an anniversary anymore. She sounds a bit dillusionsl.

oldone's picture

Submitted by oldone on Sun, 05/19/2013 - 4:36pm

How pitiful and pathetic her life must be to so desperately want her ex back who wants nothing to do with her.

When I am done - I am done....... Maybe even more so if someone left me.

bi's picture

Submitted by bi on Sun, 05/19/2013 - 4:41pm

what a dumb ass. she doesn't get to tell you what to do. and divorced people no longer have anniversaries. i smile on the anniversary of my divorce, because even though it was a damn stupid and expensive mistake that led to it, i'm so glad to be free of him!

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Submitted by tryingmom on Sun, 05/19/2013 - 6:01pm

Good for you!!! When will these crazy women figure out that moving FORWARD is the key, not moving backwards!!??!!

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Submitted by WifeVersion2.0 on Sun, 05/19/2013 - 7:04pm

Good for you! DH an I got married on the 27th of the month because it was the most convenient date for us. DH and BM had been married on the 27th of a different month and BM's bday happens to be the 27th of a different month.

She made some comment one time about how our anniversary is the same day as her birthday. I corrected her and stated that our anniversary was actually 4 months after her birthday. She replied that she celebrates her birthday every month since its such a special day so she would be celebrating her birthday every time we celebrate our anniversary. ?!?!?!?

Can we say delusional?????

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Submitted by Shook on Sun, 05/19/2013 - 8:31pm

Yosemite, that is a shining example of "don't get made, get even". I bow down to you. I think you should keep that date till the very end!!!! Smile Smile Smile

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Submitted by sandy1234 on Mon, 05/20/2013 - 2:43am

Don't ever tell her that you aren't getting married that day! Let it go on until she finds out!