My oldest SS19 leaves for basic training on Sunday. My husband has had his boys SS19 and SS15 with him for the last 3 weeks. He's been taking trips with them, trying to spend as much quality time with my SS19 before he leaves. We usually have them EOW, but we always have them more because BM cant be bothered with being a mom. The guys got back from their last trip yesterday. I was expecting them to go to Bm's house until Friday and then they would have come back to us for "our week". Technically this was her week, but she never minds less time with her kids. Even though the 19 yr old doesn't have to follow that he still goes back and forth with the younger. SO this bitch has always been an awful, neglectful mother but this one takes the cake. DH calls me and tells me that they are just going to stay with us because.... BM and her BF went to Vegas. Bitch had 2 days with her kid before he leaves for 4 months and she freaking went to Vegas. :jawdrop: Way to go mother of the year!

It literally breaks my heart for my SS. Must really suck for him.