Hi all. My fiance and I have been best friends since high school. We both married other people (twice! yikes!)and remained in touch off and on for 22 years. His second ex-wife is the problem. They got married because she went off the pill without telling him and got pregnant. They had broken up for a few weeks after she told him she went off the pill (two weeks previously) but before she told him she was pregnant. I had wanted to pursue a relationship with him, until I learned she got pregnant. At that point, I backed away, giving him space to decide what he wanted to do.