You have helped me time and time again. Due to the high conflict and creepy nature of my BM, I delete my blog posts asking for advice right after I have heard from enough of your beautiful souls to let me know what do do, or put me at ease. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate you all. This is one post I will not be deleting :). It is so much easier to trudge the psycho PASing, raging BM road knowing there are others of you on it with me. Your advice and encouragement are invaluable. THANK YOU.