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UUGHH! New GF for SS.

Willow2010's picture

So SS found a girlfriend about a month ago and they have been inseparable since. I have a few issues with this girl friend situation…

1). thru the grape vine they have already had sex. (I am disengaged so not my problem)
2) She is a very trashy 16 years old. Nose ring, tattoo on her back. I know this because she is over weight and she wears clothes that are way too small. (NMKNMP)
3) She has NO curfew. Again…she is 16. (NMKNMP)
3) DH has let them act like they are married since they met. They are together EVERY waking hour. Either at her house or at ours. Now it is only our house because STOOOOPID me told DH he was being stupid for letting his son stay out til 12 with a total stranger. When he finally started looking into the girl’s family he found out they are nasty, drunks. (NMKNMP)

Now none if this is my business really because it does not affect me one way or the other. EXCEPT they are always at our house. That bothers me.

Yesterday was the 5th day in a row they were there. SS and his GF act like they are 5-6 years old when they are around each other. They beat the crap out of each other and tattle and are loud with arguing or cutting up. SS is 17.

DH stays in the garage most evening, however he had to stay in yesterday evening and they got on his nerves also.

My problem is that DH does not want to tell them she can’t come over every day. He said that since they can’t go to her house, they should be able to come here whenever they want. Oh I don’t think so. He does not have to be around the mess too much.

How do I convince him that they don’t NEED to be with each other EVERY waking minute of every day? I just want a little peace back in my house when I get off work

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Pantera's picture

My parents just flat out told me. I had a boyfriend at that age and we were unseparable. They said he was wearing his welcome out at our house and if I wanted them to accept him, then he would need to tone down on the coming over so much. Then if I tried to go to his house all of the time since he wasn't allowed at my house alot, they would plan something or make me do chores. I knew what they were doing but I didn't argue.