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Just wow.

Willow2010's picture

Well SS is grounded (if you can call it that) for about a month. He came in at 2:00AM one night while we were out of town. His grounding is that now he has to be home by 10 if he goes anywhere. STUPID!

He also got ISS this week for three days. (In school suspension). Apparently because he forgot his ID badge. LOL. And DH believes him and has not called the school to verify. And he knows what a big fat liar that SS is.

Anywho…SS told DH yesterday that he was going to have to work 16 hours on Saturady and would not be home until probably 1AM. Bwaaahaaahaa. Now this kid has NEVER worked past 10pm on a weekend night and now that he is grounded he all of the sudden has to work on a Saturday night until 1AM.

I should not be shocked, but it still amazes me that my smart, bright, loving DH is such a bad parent.

My DS never gets in trouble (knock on wood) and I would still check his story out if came to me with this crap.

And I just sit back and watch and hope and pray that the boy is not out doing anything to hurt himself or anyone else. Why are these parents like this? I remember back when DH used to gripe about other peoples bad parenting.

I hate to tell him…he is worse that any of the ones he complained about. Sorry but true.

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Timetogiveup's picture

I know, my complains all the time about other people's parenting skills. He needs ot look in the mirror, his are the worst.

wriggsy's picture

Why is it that some parents never seem to want to stop the lying? I don't understand how a person (my DH) can believe anything that comes from a habitual liars (my SD) mouth. I continue to be amazed at some of the things I hear her say and then even more amazed that DH seems to buy it. SD used to lie every time we questioned her about her "after hours cell phone use". Used to. Until I got fed up with it and started calling her out every time I knew she lied. I monitored her use every day and would tell DH when she went past her curfew. If she lied about any part of it, I called her out on it right then.
Example:
DH--You were texting again last night after curfew.
SD--No I wasn't
DH-Yes, you were
SD--No I wasn't
DH-Yes, you were
SD--I called AM because I missed her
Wriggsy-No, SD, you called AM 3 minutes before curfew time..you texted (insert #) back and forth until exactly 10:53 last night.
SD--No I didn't
Wriggsy--Here is the printout, give me your cell phone so that we can compare the incoming/outgoing message times.

She doesn't lie about that any longer and I LOVE IT!!!

Where does SS work? I'd manage to "drop by" his work late that night--just to check his story.

Timetogiveup's picture

My SS16-Stink....he is the biggest liar. He lies about everything. He even lies to the therapist, she thinks he doesn't know what the truth is. DH is is la-la land about this....the kid has a frigging halo in his mind.

I LOVE that one...they don't lie about that anymore. HELLLLLLOOOOOOO stupid.....they are lying about something else.

I would love to line 'em all up and smack every single one of them.

wriggsy's picture

I have said before that if SD says the sky is blue, I have to go outside and check for myself! Pretty sad.