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Yes score one for Big Bad Step Mom!!

wicked witch 32's picture

Just want to say FINALLY!!!!!!!!! I have been waiting for this day for a few weeks now. Ever since SD15 was bragging to her dad about how she was going to have perfect attendance this year. No thanks to me for waking her and her sister up a few time already. With all the hell that has been going on in this house and DH telling me that in two years its going to be over with anyways, because they can't get their act together and he will not kick his child out of the house even though she treats me with nothing but disrespect ever day. So after a weekend of hell and him getting pissed and me asking why do I even stay? I FINALLY got a little happiness.

Since I am not too look at them talk to them or anything with them, I sat her got my BD8 ready for school and took her. Waiting and waiting for them SD15 and SD14 to wake up and ask me to take them to school. ...... Granted I had already told DH the schools going to be calling you because as far as I know they still asleep in the bed. What do you know.............. SD15 comes walking out and ask me to take them to school, I said go call your dad. I really did not care what he said I was not going to do it, and he was not about to ask me either. (that is the funny thing) Their nice way of asking Will you take us to school? Hummmm NO! You disrespect me; purposely do not do anything I ask of you and now you want to use me I don't think so. Never once have they said they were sorry for anything they have done or said. Even after DH has told them to do so because it is the right thing to do. I love it!! I know this sounds horrible and I should not be so happy about this, but you know what oh well. As SD15 so loudly told the neighbor lady I am her fathers wife, not their parent. Is this what its going to feel like when she gets out of this house? God I hope so, cause this fells awesome!!!!!!!!! Even with the crapy weather and this horrible migraine I might just have one of the best days of my life in a long time. }:)

One small step but more of these small steps and my marriage will be worth all the hell!!
Ok done with my happy dance. Thanks for letting me write about my great days, good days, and worst day!!!!!

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Jsmom's picture

Isn't great when you finally take a stand...For me it was over SD purposefully setting the table with Salad Forks. I went to a very "Joan Crawford" Place. But, it felt good to stop taking it from her...

Enjoy your happy dance and wait for the fall out...there is always fall out. But, at least you know you are no longer going to be her punching bag. Good job...

wicked witch 32's picture

LOL yes I know the fall out is coming in one way or another! But will enjoy today.Thanks!!

daisy0202's picture

Oh yes enjoy!!!! I feel your happy dance completely.....It sounds horrible but I know EXACTLY WHERE YOUR COMMING FROM!!!! LMAO LOVE IT!!!!