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When you have finally reached the point where you have nothing to lose.

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Everytime OSD graces us with her presence. The cycle begins. SO expects a different result, gets all excited and worked up. Then lavishes OSD with dinners, gifts and his undevoted attention. Once she has used him up, approximately 4 days in. She begins her tyrade of verbal abuse and blatant disrespect, then exits. SO falls into a depression, where he stays up all night pouting then sleeps all day, doesn't go to work and does nothing around the house. He ignores me and the other children and can't understand what my problem is.

Oh Yay!!!

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OSD plans on gracing us with her presence, because she can not figure out how to activate her iphone and I refuse to help so SO will have to take her to the store so they can do it. Also she is waiting for her shipment of clothes to come in.

Reality check! The gloves came off.

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As a good friend once said to me. He who cares less always wins. Well as SO reached his usual point of completely losing his mind after a visit from OSD. I pushed back with total and complete disregard for SO or his feelings.  I unleashed a storm of harsh truths on him, because I will not partake in his craziness for one more minute.

Wow thank goodness SO explained it's just a phase!!!

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Update:. SD 14 called BM who came to get her. Not sure what abuse stories she told her to make this happen, but YAY for me!!! SO of course is blindly optimistic thinking BM came to get her because she misses her and wants to see her and she will be back next week. 

I do not anticipate this happening as SD squeezed every ounce of money out of SO she could get, she tried very hard to work her unbelievably fake charm on me but received nothing but the cold shoulder. She also received the same from everyone else in this house including her own sister. 

Who needs tv, this show is way better

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So SD is falling into comfort. After shopping and getting home at 9pm, and spending an obsurd amount of money on SD altogether for Christmas. While I bought myself some new outfits and a coat while SO shopped for SD.SO had already given me his portion towards the bills this month, so I don't care what he spends.

It's a Christmas Miracle or so SO wants to think.

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So SD is here because her running away, walking around in front of mom's BF nude, getting drunk and high, and being extremely abusive finally pushed mom's BF to have her booted out. ( I know exactly how he feels) the disrespect and abuse was enough for me to not want her here a year ago, I would not have even tolerated the other crap for a minute.

Natural Consequences

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SO had his first lesson in making decisions that effect both iof us without discussing them with me. Day 2 of having OSD here on non-kid week.

SO made these plans behind my back. Except he sucks at being deceptive so I knew what he was up to before he spring the news on me just hours before her arrival. 

Round 2

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Well without discussing any of this with me. OSD is coming back tomorrow on not SK week. So as of now SO has it so we will have YSD one week and OSD the opposite week giving us no time alone. 

BM did this to coerce OSD into coming back to our house because BMs BF is about to kick her to the curb because he hates OSD (understandably so) she is an aweful human being. 

The hypocrisy

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I can't help but to be in complete awe of the levels SO will go to avoid dealing with his own children and Thier issues. We came to an agreement in counseling he will worry about his and I will worry about mine. Which has been working out great for me especially since I'm helpless to do anything in regards to his children and it's a relief to not care.

He on the other has plenty of issues he should be focusing on, enough to keep him plenty busy and overwhelmed. But, no he blissfully ignores what goes on with his own children and remains focused on mine. 

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