since i have been back everything has been greet between fiancee and i - not so great with his ex and the situation with the house (among other things) that has been sitting on and off the market for 2 years now. as stated in a previous post, the house has been a problem for a while. it won't sell, the ex lives in it with her BF (who has no job btw) and the 2 kids.

well i am going back to denver on friday and i think we have made some progress here. my bf has really made strides with his communication, his honesty, his therpay sessions and keeping consistant boundaries with his ex. it's funny, ever since he sent her the email establishing boundaries, he has forwarded me all of the emails including the nasty ones calling him an a**hole and she hated him. we have opened up to eachother more than we ever have. the funny thing is shortly after he set the boundaries and after she sent the nasty emails, her bf showed back up in the picture.

call me crazy but sometimes either i get a sense that my bf seems ridiculously affectionate with his daughter. he almost treats her like she's 4 when she is 10. when we first started dating i discovered that alot of nights she would sleep with him. i thought this was appropriate for younger girls but maybe 10 is a little too old for that? there have been occassions where bf and i are cuddling and he asks her to come and cuddle with us too. she'll come over and lie on us and stroke her fathers hair. although part of me finds it sweet, there is another part of me that gets a little annoyed.