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Submitted by Wheresmybroom on Thu, 03/31/2016 - 12:05pm

Hello! I am new here and so glad to have found this site! I will try to keep this short and would really love your opinions/input. Smile I am a common-law wife my "Hubs" and I are both past 50yo. Him: 2 DD 19 & 21

I have had so many issues that I don't know where to start. :? I have the most awesome man ever. He is a hard worker and is kind and loving-we have been "joined at the hip" since we hooked back up after 35 years apart (We dated off and on for 10 years in our 20's)

19yo SS lives home full time and is very quiet and works part-time has own car. I recently was able to help her get her license (She didn't care for that) and her own
insurance (She had a melt down that day) She gave him the middle finger for months after I moved in until I brought it up one day. He nipped it real quick. Then she shifts to hanging all over him and putting her feet on him etc. It gave me the creeps!
We talked (Had a few pretty crazy blow outs too) About this. When he would have a few beers, he was creeping me out by rubbing her back and hugging up to her like he would
a girlfriend. :jawdrop: and adjusting his junk around her. All of this has now stopped after I was able to get him to see how bad it looked. She acts like a 10 year old which is creepy as well. Was using a plastic baby spoon for her cereal :? She will put on coveralls and put her hair in pig tails to get his attention. When we have retired for the evening she will text or bang on the door over some bogus thing
and at first he JUMPED to open the door and she would open the door as well. Now I keep it locked when we are in there. Sooo.. now the bathrooms and bedrooms. UGH!! So disgusting I want to vomit. He asks her to clean it once a week-RARE that she does unless he screams at her. Leaves stuff lying around. I'm the mean step making her pick-up and do a few chores. If I ask her to do anything she will run to her room like a toddler. WTH Hubs let them both know that it is me and him and that this is OUR home and they are guests. The other girl is away at college and just as messy as sister but totally different personality. Dad pays for her tuition and insurance and repairs to her car, and sends her several hundred dollars a month. ALL the while she is shopping for clothes, Sephora make-up (Wish I could afford that! LOL) I don't believe she is working anymore.

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DaizyDuke's picture

Submitted by DaizyDuke on Thu, 03/31/2016 - 12:53pm

When he would have a few beers, he was creeping me out by rubbing her back and hugging up to her like he would
a girlfriend. Jawdropping! and adjusting his junk around her.

Add this to the mix and ... I'm out. Done. :O :?

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Submitted by hereiam on Thu, 03/31/2016 - 2:36pm

Oh, there's going to be a stripper pole? I'm in! Goin' to the bank to get my ones!

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Fri, 04/01/2016 - 8:23am

Stripper pole?! Oh, hell no! Aniki will be shaking and mixing cocktails. The only reason I'd be hanging onto a stripper pole is if the bus driver turned too fast and I was trying to not fall or - WORSE - spill my drink!

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Fri, 04/01/2016 - 7:42am

I'm making cocktails! I plan to make some Cherry Bombs this weekend for a Mexican themed party. Maraschino cherries soaked in vanilla vodka, then dipped (halfway) into melted vanilla chips, then dipped in green sugar crystals (Mexican flag colors are red, white & green).

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Submitted by katielee on Sat, 04/02/2016 - 11:44am

They sound like they have Mini-Wife Syndrome that's gone unchecked over the years. A lot of what you're describing is pretty typical of it. Do some research and try to get it under control. Otherwise be prepared to puke in your mouth all the time, go on Valium and blood pressure pills, and finally not be able to stand it anymore so you leave. PTSD for the rest of your life.