I swear BM has a beacon that can sense tranquility and peace in our lives, because out of the pits of hell she rises every time. We are in the middle of a nasty CS/CO battle that BM thinks she controls and runs when we found out about the arrest of her live in BF for child abuse that happened months ago and DH was never informed by CPS. We were horrified to hear this from our lawyer. Brought a petition for custody to the judge only for it to be thrown back because "well he is in jail and she was the victim of the abuse so we will give her the benefit of the doubt".