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OT: suggestions on pad training a puppy.

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I've always had dogs until the past 2 years. Always house broke, never used the pads. They always learned to go outside. DH talked me into a puppy in January and this little poop head will only go outside if the weather is perfect. If it rains she won't go, if it snows she won't go..
What do I do to flame her use pads?

Oh stupid BM STF up ..

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Must we call the lawyers in over every disagreement? I blogged before about BM wanting SS to go to camp and DH wasn't sure about sending him bc of bed wetting. In the end DH agreed to let him go. We worked our vacation weeks to make sure they didn't interfere with this camp. BM sent in to DH her 2 weeks of vacation. Neither of these are the week of this camp. In fact BM will have the kids for the weekend, drop SS off at camp Monday & pick him up Friday, have them for that weekend, and then on Monday start her week if vacation and then bring them back to DH the following Monday.

Silly little brat.. Tell me 1 more time you don't have to listen to me ..

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The step shits came back from mommy weekend and of course ss7 is awful from get go. Ss7 telling 3 year old brother to say bad words, Bs coughed and threw up so ss7 says I dare you to eat it., we get home and DH tells bs 7 to do his homework and tells the other to go straighten his room up. SS7 has to break his pencil, have a fit, threw an ink pen so I made him pick it up, a few min later he throws it again and I said go pick it up.. He says no I don't have to listen to you.. Of course as soon as I turn around he says ok I do have to listen to you and goes to pick it up.

Pissing in cups

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We put all 3 kids in the back seat if the van so we could load an ottoman in middle of the van. That was the only way it would fit. So about 30 min into the trip home I hear the littlest one saying can I pee in it too?? So I look and one of the step kids pissed a cup instead of saying hey I need to use the bathroom.

Think I could just cry.. Seriously why does everything have to be a fight with dh..sorry it's long

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DH asks me about leaving work early to sign the kids up for baseball. We know he can't do it alone. Don't henbane tells me when I get home that he signed the step kids up but didn't sign our son up bc he didn't know if I would want him to play. 1) the kid loves baseball, 2) I mentioned asking if he was old enough to play just for exercise so why would I not want him to play? I said I want him to get to play im just don't want to sign him up and him not get to go (bc we know the step kids games and practice will be more important). He tells me his parents are going to help like last year.

Late night phone calls

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Last night everyone is in bed and at 930ish DHs phone starts ringing .. Surprise it's BM. I'm sure she was calling to check on SS bc he has an ear infection. DH didn't answer bc the kids were sleeping already. I told him he could text her and say that I get up at 330am for work phone calls after 9 are not acceptable. He of course didn't. I'm not saying don't call your kids or check on them when sick but when you get off work at 5 don't wait till 930..

Totally done with SS & he knows it

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I've been saying it for a few years as it has escalated into worse behavior from him. I finally told DH if he couldn't get the child's behavior towards me under control I would no longer help him out by watching the kids. He finally said I agree. I doubt he meant it but he's not letting the SS giving me all the trouble know he isn't backing me up. So I said he has 1 opportunity and then I'm done. So we are all in walmart and the kid is having a fit & jerking away from everyone so I said I'm done. So I told him he needed to walk with his daddy as he went to get a drink ..

OT- toddler waking up in middle of night having a tantrum

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My toder has never slept good. He has always woke up randomly through out the night. All this week it has been up around 1230 having a fit. Kicking screaming slapping. He won't you what's wrong or if anything hurts. He wants me to carry him but when I try to console him he screams and slaps at me. I'm dairy certain he isn't awake. Tonight I caught him in the kitchen tryin to pee in the corner and when I stopped him it set him off.. 15 min later he is laying back down. Any suggestion or asvice?

SKs stop coming to me to tattle ..

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Daddy sitting on the couch or in the bed ...all te kids come to me to tattle over everything .. Wah wah.. He hit me, wah wah he called me a name .. Wah wah ... Wah wah .. My reply is ur dad is in there and then I get the blank blinking stare .. I've even said why r you coming to me? If you don't have to listen to me then why should he? Until you can learn to not having a screaming fit when I ask you to do something don't come to me expecting me to be able to do anything about any body .. GO TO DADDY

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