You are here

Wah-wah-11's Blog

Tired and aggravated

Wah-wah-11's picture

So all last week and weekend SS has cussed.. I'm over it.. Today he's getting sassy.. I'm sitting on the couch with bs and SS starts jumping on the other side .. I said quit jumping on my couch.. SS looks at me and smart assy says "ooooh, is it your couch??" .. All I said was "go ask your daddy whose couch it is" .. (My parents gave me the couch when they upgraded bc the steps busted the cushions on 3 previous sofas). Seriously on vacation I had to put the mattress back on the bed bc they wouldn't quit fighting, wrestling, jumping ...

And the F bomb was dropped

Wah-wah-11's picture

So we went fishing this evening & packing up bs3 jumps out of the truck (where her and SS was sitting) and says "hey dad!!!! SS said FUCK!! -- my reaction is a huge gasp followed by WHAT?!?!? SS comes out squalling I didn't say it! Well where in the crap did he hear it ?!? Hubby is furious

Foul mouthed people

Wah-wah-11's picture

Lately we've had trouble with YSS cussing. It's rubbing off on bs which is driving me crazy. Tonight oldest step kid tells me how BM and her husband are constantly calling each other stuff like f**ing whore, bitch, dickhead, asshole.. I said this is the stuff you need to be tell your therapist about when she says how's it going?

Alienating the kids? Seriously we are on vacation

Wah-wah-11's picture

We are on vaca with the kids.. BM sent a cell with the step kids to use. These kids can't keep up with anything (shoes from her house causes fights, undies, socks, they lose book bags, glasses...4 pair of glasses in 6 months or less). So here we are on vacation and she's harassing DH about it and threatening him with alienation.. Hello psycho bitch he just said to call or text his number of you want to speak to them, you just got off the phone with them.. It's not alienating

Would you like to know why I have so much trouble with SS not listening to me?

Wah-wah-11's picture

Because ....

I refuse to let him ride with me when we have to take separate vehicles. Really DH because I'm pretty certain I stopped letting him ride with me bc he wouldn't listen to me and is rude and disrespectful. And maybe bc he puts our 3 year old up to bad behavior ...

Vaca over

Wah-wah-11's picture

Last day of BMs vacation with the kids. They will be back bright and early tomorrow at least I have to work for a few days bc DH usually doesn't discipline at all when they come back. I can tell a huge difference in bs without the one being around him. I haven't had to fuss at him constantly. I still had to correct him but he's 3 what do you expect? My mom even made the statements he could tell a diff in him. We made it through a meal at a sit down rest. Without me saying out let's just go! DH and I have only had 1-2 little spats.

Just find this odd ..

Wah-wah-11's picture

All 3 kids are boys ... When referring to the step kids they are referred to as "the boys".. When referring to bs it's his name, nickname, or he/him .. If we say the boys would like that .. It's known we are referring to the steps not all 3... When talking about all 3 it's "the kids" .. Just thought that was odd

Pages