Dropped all insurance without giving notification
I swear i am going to flip, really do not know how much else i can stand from this woman. Got an email from BM that she has dropped her health and dental insurance as of THREE MONTHS AGO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She gave some excuse about not being able to have double coverage on the kids which of course is bullshit! Guess that is one way to get rid of the Dr. level family therapist that is not willing to say that we are abusive with my ss13. We now have a $1000.00 bill with the therapist because we choose to go with a therapist in her area and one that her attorney had suggested to attempt to gain access to ss13 for therapy which is court ordered for her and ss to attend at the request of the therapist. If we would have been given notice my H could have switched companies at the beginning of the year to cover 100% of the bill. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!
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Feel your pain going through
Feel your pain going through the same thing with BFs BM just making appt whenever she feels like it and us getting the bill. Mines isnt as much as your but I know the feeling. She should have to pay half with or without insurance.
Save the email. you are well
Save the email. you are well within your rights to say that you should have been able to assume it was covered when you sought treatment and she should be stuck with the bill.
From here on out you'll be responsible but I promise you that any decent lawyer will tell you that you had every right to assume that she was fulfilling the same level of commitment and you wouldn't have continued treatment without finding alternative insurance otherwise.
She just SCREWED herself. Ask your lawyer.
hehehe... when it's all done she's gonna be the one who suffers from this little deal.
The GAL was not impressed
The GAL was not impressed either as the email clearly shows the date that it was sent, her statement which she wrote within the email. Clearly not communicating with my H. I truly believe that the issue is the DR. level therapist's recommendations which of course did not line up with what she was pulling. She has to know that we would not have the money to hand over over $200.00 an hour to see him without it being covered. What she does not know is that he does not feel that unless the SS13 shows up there is really no need for additional sessions because the rest of the family is very close, I am really lucky as the SS16 along with BC are doing very well considering everything that they have had to go through.
Per the therapist and our
Per the therapist and our Attorney it is not illegal or unethical to have both divorced parents coverage for the children. Yes one is primary which was our's and her's was secondary to cover any outstanding payments. She even gave a copy of her cards to the therapist the week prior without stating that they children were not going to be covered.
Isn't it nice that we live in
Isn't it nice that we live in a society were we can take her to court for the outstanding $1000.00 bill but it will also cost us over a grand to pay for the attorney. And then we have to hope that unlike last time the judge sides with us but because of her income he was unable to force her to pay!!!!!!!! Of course the judge can take my income as the sparent into consideration so we ended up with the GAL bill even though she was found in contempt on 2 counts! I dont feel sorry for the court when they complain that they are so busy when the allow people to get away with little to no consequences. And this is not even talking about how it hurts the kids. During this whole process this last 6 months the SS13 has not been seen by his therapist or his biofather or siblings. We have been in our new house for 4 months now and he has not even seen it. Thank God I found this place to vent. Thanks for the help and support guys.