Grrr.

We took out SD14.
Offered to pay for her 3D movie - she said "No, thank you. I am very grateful that you're offering, and for taking me here, but I prefer paying for this myself. Thanks again"
Okay, whatever, pay for it.
So while she was looking for a seat, me and BF agreed that he asks her about the behaviour but later,when she gets more comfortable.
During the movie she hasn't said a word, only got up once to get popcorn, first offered both of us then she had some. She payed for that too,and even though we offered to give her money she wouldn't take it. Again with the thanksi'mgratefulbutno shit. Whatever , pay for it too.
When the movie was done, we asked where does she want to go now,and she said home. (I was annoyed..ugh) But BF asked why doesn't she stay out with us a bit more,that hed like that, etc..So she said something like "If you insist, I will stay. Thank you for taking me out."
So we sat in a cafe, and not just that she wouldn't let us pay for her, she even offered to pay our bill too. Something like "You were kind to take me here, so I would like to do something nice for you - I'd like to pay your bill" But BF and I didn't let her. So he asked her where did the change come from,what's up with the behaviour,and she said "Me and sister were rude to you and Vikki, so we decided it's time for a change. Our behaviour was not appropriate and we are very sorry for that. We are trying to be polite, kind, and to think of others, not just us. So we will take any chance to do a favor to you two, we will take less and give more. " Then she smiled and stared at her father, and said something along those lines "Since you have always took our wishes into consideration, respected our choices, we decided to respect yours too. We're being kind. Do you see something wrong with that?" But she said that in a rather sarcastic, mean tone.
So he said there's nothing wrong, of course, with being kind and polite,but they're taking it too far and being awkward.
So she said something like " father, you and Vikki pointed our that our behaviour was not appropriate. It wasn't. So we changed, for the better, didn't we? We're respectful, kind, polite, we offer to do favors..I see no problem with our behaviour." (I don't think I got every word like she said it but that's basically it)
So she just stared at him and he stared back at her,and honestly, I couldn't even decode his look. Shocked, hurt, without a word to say.. I don't know. So sad to see. She looked kind of angry.
So then she said something like "If you wouldn't mind, I'd like to go home now. I'm a bit tired"
So we took her home.

Then SD17 - she wouldn't even talk that much. We were at a restaurant so she just stared at the menu, then ate, than stared at the wall poiting out how pretty the wall color is. wtf.
He asked her too about the behaviour - she said something like "You wanted us to be polite to you and Vikki. So we are, father." And she wouldn't talk about it more. We tried but she basically said that it was BF's wish and now it's like that. He wanted it, he should be happy. Something like that. She said she doesn't want to discuss it any further because it won't bring us anywhere - he made his choice. She payed for her bill too. Wanted to pay our bill as well. Even offered to pay for part of the gas.
Then she also wanted to go.

They used to say "dad", never ever ever FATHER, and now..wtf. I'm waiting to hear them call him Mister -Lastname-.

He's hurt,and I'm shocked.
Before they were so close , but now? it's like they're having a business negotiation,not a talk with their father.
I'm just shocked,and it hurts me so bad to see him suffer because of those little....ugh
WE DID NOTHING BAD TO THEM! I just want us to be happy,and them to be normal kids:(