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SD Totals another car

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Submitted by Victoria4338 on Wed, 11/27/2013 - 12:13pm

# 3 and counting. She totaled her BMW a month ago. Had to have another BMW so her dad, my husband buys a 10K BMW it lasted a total of 7 days. Reason for this single car accident. She swerved to not run over a bunny! Really! Don’t believe it, you were texting again. So now we are waiting for the insurance to review the claim. Ludicrous. But i'm only a step so i have no say.

My Step Moms Mantra

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Submitted by Victoria4338 on Fri, 11/15/2013 - 1:33pm

Dear BM - I’m not your priest, rabbi or confidante. We are not friends. What happened between you and your husband at that time is and will always remain between you and your ex-husband.

My husband is just that, my husband. I do not wish to share or discuss our relationship with you.

Confession Time

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Submitted by Victoria4338 on Fri, 11/15/2013 - 10:44am

Confession Time!
I have been a SM for 18 years. At times, I thought I was going to lose my mind. But I found my way to handle the stress.

My SD’s were/are spoiled and unappreciative. The real issues started when they hit middle school. Disrespectful, condescending, down right rude. My husband never wanting to upset the princess didn’t back me up. So what is a SM to do?

Knowing what i no now, would I sign up to being a Step?

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Submitted by Victoria4338 on Wed, 11/13/2013 - 11:58am

I’m not a blogger, nor do I find the need to share with the world my min to min activities. But recently, after being diagnosed with breast cancer, I have been reflective.
Funny, when you start to look back on decisions you’re made. Oh how I so wish there was a do over button. I’ve been a Step now for 18 years. I adore my husband, he is one of the most caring, and hard working man I know. But he has divorce guilt. That taints his parenting.