The first thing I want to say is thank you to all the brave women and men who post their intimate stories here. I've been lurking for sometime and if it weren't for this site, I may have given up many times. Not only do I really appreciate not feeling alone anymore when I read about your experiences and feelings that are so close to mine, but I probably even more appreciate those that I can't relate to, that seem so much worse than my own, because it reminds me to count my blessings and appreciate the positive.