:? I would like to write a nice letter but to the point to my step-daughter that is 45 years old regarding her interfering and inviting herself to events that her father and I have planed. My husband is a young 86 and I am 61 we have three homes and travel and a wonderful life together. He is not able to say anything to his daughter and I would like to stop it before it gets out of hand. He has another daughter tells us that she has been doing this all her life with everyone and the family has put up with it for years