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Once again thrown under the bus

Uncomfortable's picture

Submitted by Uncomfortable on Sat, 05/08/2021 - 12:31pm

I posted a few days ago about how to get over my DH putting his family first.  We had agreed that I would not be left alone with his SS due to the risk for f my job. 
 

guess who left for work this morning & didn't take SS? I'm so lived!  I feel like getting a hotel this evening bc I don't know if I can be in the same space with him! 

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Submitted by lieutenant_dad on Sat, 05/08/2021 - 12:38pm

Call your DH and tell him either he comes home and gets his son or you are dropping him off at BM's house. Then pack your bag and leave for the weekend. Your DH won't change if he gets away with it (and even if you deliver consequences to his actions, he may not learn).

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Submitted by Uncomfortable on Sat, 05/08/2021 - 1:26pm

He picked him up.  Unfortunately BM is not in the picture (physically at least, she lives out of state). 
 

I'm just furious he did this.  He knows how I feel about it.  Claims he had a lot on his mind and was busy and forgot.  BS! 

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Submitted by Uncomfortable on Sat, 05/08/2021 - 1:29pm

I have plans tonight with my friends for dinner.  I'm thinking about spending the day out tomorrow with my kiddos after I pick them up in the morning. 

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Submitted by Exjuliemccoy on Sat, 05/08/2021 - 5:47pm

Get some pointy shoes, and bury the toe of one of them up your H's bum.

You have to choose the tact most likely to produce the desired result. A lot of us tried being nice, only to get dumped on, used up, and disrespected. Nice guys finish last in steplife, so school that man good.

Have a great Mother's Day celebrating YOU!

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Submitted by Uncomfortable on Sat, 05/08/2021 - 9:07pm

I had a great time with friends and now he's pouty.  Too bad I don't care.