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Keeping my cool.

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Sat, 03/24/2012 - 11:51pm

Due to personal issues within my family that were completely devastating and unexpected...we did not get to move. We had to give up our apartment to rent out. Ugh. Of course. But anyway...

I ended up moving out for about 3 months...spent some time off and on with the girls on the weekends and boyfriend. No longer calling him fiance...Dh...none of that. Whatever. As I've mentioned - we've been together almost 5 years now...I'm comfortable. So about 3 weeks ago I started going back and forth between his house and mine.

I don't want to get married...

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Tue, 11/29/2011 - 1:16am

I am just not sure about this. Not sure at all. Although I hate the title of "Dad's girlfriend..." - although the kids do call me mom from time to time (which I ignore...never wanted to be a mom)...I heard from who I would say FBIL that FH will be proposing officialy..the ring is about to be presented...can I say yes...but not officially walk down the aisle? Is that okay?

No more libido...LOL

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Mon, 10/17/2011 - 11:25pm

Since my last post things have not gotten any better. My parade just keeps getting rained on.

Small Update: I am staying at my parents house until they apartment is done with renovations (SO CLOSE!) - the power has been shut off at DH's parents house where he resides until our place is done. We have nowhere to keep the kids over night yet (I am not bringing them to my parents...my bedroom is my office and school work area...I dont need them in here...)

Incidents with SD9:

I forgot to add some things...and I need to see if anyone else has this issue?

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Tue, 09/27/2011 - 2:12am

FMIL is very intrusive. We live in her house...(we'll be out before Xmas) FH and I have established our own ground rules on how we would like to the kids to be raised when they are with us on the weekends...of course, FMIL does not agree with us. She always intrudes...rolls her eyes...huff and puffs...etc. It's a major annoyance. She thinks she is the girls mother or something. She will fight and yell and scream at us if she disagrees...and of course SD9 is her fav. and always wins. (see past posts for references to crazy FMIL).

Freaking out. LONG...and insane. OPINIONS NEEDED!

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Mon, 09/26/2011 - 12:25am

First I'd like to say - I have been catching up on my credit cards...and stopped spending so much on the kids...I've been hitting the gym and my stress levels have reduced some. I'm putting me first. The apartment (cross your fingers) will be ready before Xmas.

I have some new updates.

BM moved kids back in with newbabydaddy again. Granted he is a great guy...I think he is still really making a bad choice...or he did for having a child with her.

Yes...I am jealous. VENT

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Sat, 07/02/2011 - 11:24pm

I have maxed out all of my credit cards on making sure the girls have clothes, shoes and nice things for when they are here...made the mistake multiple times of allowing the girls to take home their good clothes from here I never get back...and I always say Nope...I am never going to do that again...and then I do. My own stupid fault. And yet BM still calls here and asks for money...which boyfriend of 4 years does not give her since he gives her over half of his pay and doesn't bring anything home. While I am in debt...depressed...gained 40 lbs.

Wow....way to move them for the 10th time. You get mom of the year.

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Wed, 05/11/2011 - 9:43pm

We knew this was going to happen. This is the 10th move for the kids in 4 years. Of course she has a new baby daddy and she left him...she wants that money. I guess she is going to get it. She won't even have to work now. She's a good role model for all three kids...GREAT. And that means the oldest child that I already want to kick in the butt when she comes around is going to be in an even more horrid rotten mood. This is JUST great.

On Mother's Day: "You aren't my mother "unbelieveable, you can't boss me around so stop!"

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Sun, 05/08/2011 - 9:51pm

Well...what a day. After disaster after disaster the last few weekends with the oldest fsd8...this weekend was going perfect. We did not have to correct her once...everything was smooth and I even took them to a bday party for a friend with me yesterday.

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