Dh and his EX used to share the same Doctor. Once the marriage ended she decided to get another. His DR knows all about the affair she had and his emotional crap he went through. When I met hubby and moved to his city I startd going to the same office (different Doctor). Our son goes there and our soon to be daugther will go there.

Well, the Ex wants to return there. There are a million other doctors (we live a fairly big city)and she wants to go to this doctor's office and she wants to go to my doctor.

It has been quite some time since I have been on this site. I guess when things seem quiet I just go on my merry way.

A bit of background.....I had a verbal argument with my husband ex last year...said some mean things....just had a miscarriage and they entered my home saying it was inappropriate for SD to refer to me as Stepmom....I lost it on her mom and her. Felt terrible for my actions...did counselling and then months later sent a sincere apology note.....to this day it has not be acknowledged. I needed to let go of my own guilt and get back to living my life.

It is almost 2am here and my life has just fallen apart. It is so sad the power that the EX's have and the lack of power that our husbands have. I don't know what to do at this point. My heart aches and I don't have it in me to continue like this for the next minute, hour,day, year, ten years or a life time.

I was reading a recent post and thought here we all are trying our best to save or help out step kids and to do our very best as parents. Many of us have been thrown into this and are just finding our way ourselves. Someone in one of the post wrote that we can do whatever we like but the Biomom has the power to undermine us even if the kids interest are in the forefront but because it is the stepmom it is a bad idea.