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Trytobegood's picture

Submitted by Trytobegood on Wed, 02/17/2016 - 7:56pm

Is it normal for a 13 yr old boy to cuddle his mother and rub her hair ,neck and ear in his underwear? I mean I have two teenage sons and I would find that uncomfortable at 13? He does this in front of everyone but it's still creepy to me... And yes he's a baby won't even go into a dark room alone but dang. . Any suggestions? Do I say hey that's gross and kinda weird or just keep my mouth shut?

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notasm3's picture

Submitted by notasm3 on Wed, 02/17/2016 - 8:57pm

Ick. Ick. Ick.

Physical affection is fine - but not when one is almost naked.

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Submitted by WTF...REALLY on Wed, 02/17/2016 - 9:08pm

Nope. I have a 16 year old son. Not normal. Kid is gonna have a "mom" complex. Ick

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Submitted by Trytobegood on Wed, 02/17/2016 - 9:27pm

Oh he likes his way I'm surprised she doesn't wipe his butt still it's odd and he needs help

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Submitted by Trytobegood on Thu, 02/18/2016 - 12:05am

so what do I say? Get ur clothes on? Your 13 don't ya think that's weird since u have no problem talking about how u work ur girlfriends? But ur on ur mom looking two?

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Submitted by Trytobegood on Thu, 02/18/2016 - 12:05am

so what do I say? Get ur clothes on? Your 13 don't ya think that's weird since u have no problem talking about how u work ur girlfriends? But ur on ur mom looking two?

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Submitted by WokeUpABug on Thu, 02/18/2016 - 12:24am

I'm confused as to why you are in a room with BM and SS13 in his underwear?

Take some pics with your camera phone. Pretend to post to facebook (don't actually do this). That should take care of it.

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Submitted by LikeMinded on Thu, 02/18/2016 - 4:05am

I struggle with a very strange SS10 who shits his pants and acts like a baby. I have enlisted the help of the other kids to point out when he's acting like a baby.

I'm not sure what you could do, but I think having DH do it (several times) might have better results.

Is it time for a talk about the birds and the bees? Have DH talk to him about his sexuality, and talk about him growing up and not behaving in those ways?

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Submitted by RayRay on Thu, 02/18/2016 - 11:35am

Very strange and abnormal behavior. I would definitely have to say something. That isn't appropriate at the age of 10 or even 7. Maybe up to toddler age but after that just creepy and weird.

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Thu, 02/18/2016 - 1:34pm

Aw come on... remember my weird tutor who told me that his girlfriend's 15 year old liked to walk around the house naked? I told him that was gross and weird... he quickly tried to cover by saying that the 15 year old was very immature for his age. IDGAF... my SIX year old would not walk around the house naked.. much less even in his undies.. there is just no reason for it!

WTH is the matter with people???