Ok friends....lets get a few things straight...I am very laid back, do not like to argue, like things done right, I like a clean house, and I am into responsibility. Thats a little about me.

My husband babies his daughter who is 12. She is lazy and ungrateful and it gets worse everytime she is at the house. I try to overlook it, but at times it is very hard to deal with.

I really have not every had to raise my voice to my sd because I dont feel it is my place to do that. When i have a issue i go to my husband and he usually makes excuses for her, which I am TIRED of. He always says he will talk to her, but for some reason it never happens.

My sd is suppose to be SOOOO outgoing and when she does this it DRIVES ME CRAZY.

We were at church on Sunday. My sd and myself were about to set down, but we had to wait on a few people to go by. One of the people that was in our way moved back and told us that we could go infront of them and set down. So I said thank you and looked at my SD to give her the que to go. She looked at me and said NO. We were holding the line up. I was hot and it was that time of the month. I told sd to please go. She said no way she was not setting by a stranger. I loooked at her and I think she saw the devil in the building. I told her to GO NOW...I AM SERIOUS.

She knew I was mad at her all thought church she was afraid. I can tell when she gets nervous. I did not say two words to the sd all day long. I didnt tell her father either because he would just make up some excuse for why she told me no.

This really irritated me. Its not like I asked her to do something illegal or something. If she had been my biological child I would have taken her to the nursery and had a little talk with her. I dont really know why this made me mad. I think I would have been fine if she would not have just plain out told me NO. Twice on top of that.

Is that wrong in me to feel the way I did?

Im still not over it. I feel like im always the one that does everything and get nothing in return.