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truebloodfreak's picture

bm does nothing for her kids.she lives in California with her other 2 younger kids. after i found out she was claiming all 4 kids to get link card,housing and cash assistance i lost any humanity i had for her. in all the yeas she was claiming them she never once sent any money for food or anything. the last time she saw them was last July only becuz i made them go see her cuz i was pregnant and stressed out. this summer both SS have summer school so i don't get a break. but Im at the point where i literally don't want to spend any of my.money on them. i work full time all week for $10/HR. i miss my.son all week long for a a little bit of money that i don't wanna spend towards them in any way. their mother should at least send them like $200 month for food and toiletries. I'm very tempted to send her receipts for stores and tell her she needs to contribute becuz she does nothing!! i am wrong for wanting her to help financially

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doll faced sm's picture

You're not wrong at all. Is there no CO for these things? Most states do have a monthly minimum for child support even if the NCP doesn't have a job. It may be just $25/wk, but it's better than what you're getting now.

truebloodfreak's picture

no Co. no courts. no attorneys. nothing has been legally done at all. bm took off to do her own thing 7 years ago and pops in here and there when she feels like being a parent. ive been with So for 4 years she has probably seen her kids 4 times in that time period

doll faced sm's picture

Put some pressure on him to get a CO. With nothing in place, she could just show up one day and take them, nothing in the world your SO could do. Try legal zoom or perhaps some other websites that offer free or low cost legal forms that your DH could fill out and file with the county clerk. Since it seems the BM won't be in town to defend herself, he may be ok without an attorney.

truebloodfreak's picture

how can he file for cs??? do we need an attorney? ? dosage. it cost money? what. documents do we need??

truebloodfreak's picture

how can he file for cs??? do we need an attorney? ? dosage. it cost money? what. documents do we need??