Can I just say that it is SO WONDERFUL to know that I am not alone!! i stubled on this site this morning after being up until 3am this morning crying out of pure frustration of my bf's ex. (been divorced over a year) His beautiful daughters are here for spring break and the 6 of us (my 2 sons live with us) have had an awesome week. BUT I am so completley exhausted of his ex's juvenile and just plain mean actions. She is so manipulative to them and uses them as pawns against him. The storeis are unbelieveable...I really have felt like she was going to win latley. She would do ANYTHING on earth to keep us from being together, even admits that her goal in life is to make our life together living hell.

BUT...reading that there are so many others who deal with these crazy lunatics on a daily basis (and with a great deal of class I might add ;)) is just so motivating. I can handle this crazy lady lol. This is about 4 young precious kids, and making them feel safe, comforted, and loved because they are so innocent. Not about her inability to grow up! You are in your mid-thirties for crying out loud, time to let go.

As for me, I am going to take it day by day and not let her affect my emotions.I need to focus on making his daughters actually feel normal for the mere 11 weeks a year we get them

And you all hang in there too. Theres obviously a reason you are still wiht your guy...because you LOVE him, so the prices we have to pay are worth it, just remember in the famous words of JT "What goes around comes back around" Even if it's not til the kids grow up and see it for themselves.

Looking forward to giving/getting support...