SD17 and DD15 got in trouble for stealing. BM wanted to talk in length with DH to make sure they were on the same page and punishment was the same at both homes and nobody would stray.....and that Sd wouldn't choose to stay at the house with no punishment....SD was banned from using BMs or DHs cars for 3 weeks and can't go anywhere or see anyone.  Sounds okay?

But 3 days after the "talk" BM goes out and buys SD a brand new car...that she's been cruising around in. And guess who is refusing to now stay at our house because of the new car? SD. Duh! People are nuts.

it never ends.....

And I'm so tired (mostly thankful) of SD12 not sleeping here. It just causes so much BS for my household.

DH gets home at 4 to where skids were supposed to be dropped off here (Sd can't bring her new car to our house) by BM which never happens.....just to be an a hole.

so he drives 30 minutes to pick up skids.....drops SD12 at dance class. Comes home for an hour....drives 30 minutes back to get SD and 30 minutes back home...he is about walk in the door with SD...feed her dinner and then make another hour long round trip to take her back to BMs. Like what is the point?? I don't even get it. 

he will have spent between 430 PM and 930 PM literally driving back and forth over and over again. This is his life 4 nights a week and it is just insane to me.

but then at 10 Pm when I've cooked dinner and taken care of the toddler and cleaned up....I can't be in a bad mood or tired.

ok dude.