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Defending the BM--Analysis

thinkthrice's picture

Submitted by thinkthrice on Thu, 07/16/2015 - 10:07am

Well if you have the "blame the SM" and "defend the BM" type of "D"H and you're wondering why. ..

1. He probably thinks you are the same sort as the BM--misogynistic tendencies increase because it can't be HIS fault that he was "walked over" by the GUBM--he's not about to let that happen with SM

2. Men tend to put on rose-coloured glasses about their ex relationships--women don't

3. Defending the BM is a defense of his own character judgement and taste

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EvilAngel's picture

Submitted by EvilAngel on Thu, 07/16/2015 - 10:13am

I have never had this problem...probably because all of DHs exs are complete and total c you next Tuesdays. But if he did EVER do that...I would cut his balls off.

WalkOnBy's picture

Submitted by WalkOnBy on Thu, 07/16/2015 - 10:45am

third.

Disneyfan's picture

Submitted by Disneyfan on Thu, 07/16/2015 - 10:31am

Forget about what's wrong with him. There has to be something wrong with a woman who stays with a misogynistic man.

dood's picture

Submitted by dood on Thu, 07/16/2015 - 10:34am

Yeah, me either....

... and I agree with Disney - where is the self esteem? No relationship is worth giving that up.

Monchichi's picture

Submitted by Monchichi on Fri, 07/17/2015 - 3:25am

Mine was/is "blame the SM" and "defend the MIL". SO wouldn't defend Jabba if his life depended on it.